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fishnapple · 1 month ago

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Your successful qualities

Let's find out what qualities do you possess that can make you successful on your chosen path ✨️

This is a general reading meant for multiple people. Take only what resonates and leave out the rest.

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YELLOW

You have qualities that would make you a person of the people. You have a high level of emotional intelligence and charm that make it easy for you to dive into people's hearts. The chief element that will contribute to your success is how you connect with people. You know how to express your feelings in a calm and soothing way, people feel accepted and nurtured through the interactions with you and your presence. You care a lot about other's comfort. You intuitively understand what the other person wants without them having to voice it out. This is especially helpful when you are assigned a task or when you assign a task to other people. You know how to complete the task in the way that the other person wants and you also know what the other person is capable of, what is their working style, so you can give them suitable task and instruction. You also have the ability to pacify and harmonise difficult situations. Which are qualities that are very much needed when dealing with customers or working in employee relations. But if you're not careful, people's dependency and over demanding could be a problem. Dealing constantly with people's problems can drain your energy really fast. Also, when there are many people expecting something from you, a desire to please, to be helpful and perfect in your job, can become a burden for you. The downside of being in tune with others is that you're entangled with them, it would be hard to act independently.

What makes you popular with people is not just your aura or your caring and pleasant nature. It's also your communication skills. You have the gift of the gab, striking a balance between being funny and wise. Your humour can diffuse tense situations and your knowledge and wisdom can guide you through the intricate system of socialising, never appearing too jesting nor too serious. You can grasp abstract concepts easily and then explain them back in a simple to understand way, this ability will make you a great teacher or a supervisor or someone who needs to present their ideas to a mass. You also can turn those ideas into reality, ideas don't just stay in your head, you pull them out and mould them into solid existences. When you encounter new information or foreign topics, you don't shy away from them but revel in the process of analysing, understanding and absorbing that information. So new job, new position, new opportunities don't faze you, your adaptability is one of your biggest talents.

What can make you successful is your drive for success, it's very simple. As long as you have the desire to succeed in anything you do, you can achieve it, with patience, diligence but also a flash of genius. You are an innovative pioneer, you follow your own rules, and this will attract people and opportunities to you.

BLACK

This may sound corny but it's your heart and passion. As you can see in the picture above, the "heart" bead landed right next to the "sun" bead at the centre. It's just that simple. Your heart shines so brightly that it can attract success. The more you're in alignment with yourself, the better the chance for you to shine and soar. Self alignment can mean various things, self awareness, self compassion, self expansion, all the things that make you become clearer about yourself. In doing so, you can understand your strengths and weaknesses with an objective lens, develop a healthy ego to navigate the world and stand up for yourself, utilise your potentials fully and have a better vision of what you want out of your life (this sounds like an ad for self improvement program)

You being you, truthfully, unapologetically, without any shadow nor hiding, will make everything you strive for easier to grasp. Right now, you might have some fears about expressing yourself fully, showing your creative side, which is precious and a huge treasure. You don't want to be an outcast, being labelled as weird or individualistic. You might have a perfectionist living inside you, constantly criticising and questioning your every move and attempt at doing something creative. Maybe you don't feel confident enough, still thinking that you lack skills or you look at other people and see them getting busy and successful, you begin to doubt your resolution and your ability, no amount of practice is enough in your eyes. This line of thinking is really detrimental to your growth. Looking at other people for inspiration is fine but it can become an obsession, taking other's success as goals to achieve, while ignoring your own brilliance. There's something you need to know, that you don't have to be applauded by a crowd to prove that you're talented and worthy. You will find that, by being yourself and sharing your creativity, slowly and surely, there will be people who appreciate your work, even if they are not the mainstream crowd.

On the subject of the crowd, this group has a bit of similarity with the first group, in the ability to connect with people. But unlike group one, who uses their charm and verbal ability to harmonise and attract people, yours is more about your ability to get into the hearts of other people, through your sensitivity and kindness. This group's soul is like one of the artists. Beauty moves your heart, you see beauty in everything, down to their core, this kind of ardent appreciation will spread to your surroundings, the people around you. It's like you have a subconscious ability to beautify everything, making things softer, more tender, more kind. Don't hide this part of yours, the more you're willing to be transparent and spiritually "naked", the more joy and success will come into your life, for you will be the pure vessel that the universe will pour into endlessly.

GREEN

The quality that stands out the most is your ability to accept and commit to changes, whether those changes are about yourself, your environment, or other outside factors. It's not that you actively seek chaos or transformation just for the sake of shaking things up, but when changes come to you, you don't cower and complain, you accept them and try to find the best possible solution to deal with them, no matter how scared and uncomfortable you feel inside. It's this kind of courage that will help you sail through the ups and downs in life without being sunken and defeated by them.

When you feel afraid or anxious, uneasy in your mind, you actively try to find a solution, a different route of thinking to get out of that unproductive thinking mode. Sometimes you would even seek the very things that make you afraid, to learn more about them, to gain an understanding and to broaden your perspective. When your heart feels weak, you still believe in a better future. In doing so, you attract luck to your side. You would find that whenever you're in a difficult situation, if you keep your faith and your mind open, new understanding and support will come your way, helping you regain stability and inner peace again. Your heart is resilient, even though it might have suffered painful wounds in the past, it still remains optimistic and tries to break away from the clutch of the past. So you don't easily give up when there are hardship and setbacks in your endeavour. Your mind also can think up really out of the box ideas, great innovative ideas that can bring changes to the community, and the society you're in, as long as you give your mind total freedom.

With your resilient heart, your outward aura is very stable and solid, very sure of yourself. You have good self-control, from your body to your mind and your heart. Dark thoughts won't be able to stay in your mind for long, you exercise firm authority on them, not allowing them to sabotage you. Sometimes you can be in a melancholic mood, feeling hopeless or too weary, but you know how to get out of it, centering yourself to the physical reality around you, taking care of yourself and reaffirming your core values. You know how to offset the dark with light, the cold with warmth. When you're stressed, you might choose to do something physical or appreciate the beauty around you, bringing you back to simple happiness. This again points to the sturdiness of your core. You don't seek external validations or nourishment from others, you nourish yourself and shine your own light, you're not the moon waiting for other light to illuminate you and reflecting back that light, you are the sun that give out your light and illuminate others. This self containment, or independence will make you a great leader, or someone who can work independently, actually, any positive won't be daunting to you at all. You can take on lots of stress, not to say that you should, but when working or doing something under pressure, you can still manage the load and work efficiently.

BLUE

Life seems like a never-ending adventure to you. You're not meant to stay in one place, be contented with "normal" life, "normal" means what everyone thinks how life should be, not for you, you're a traveller, a seafarer, constantly following the flow of life. The fluidity of your energy enables you to navigate life situations with grace and ease, not that you're trouble-free or everything is smooth sailing all the time, but you don't get stuck. If you ever find yourself in a predicament, you don't sit and complain, asking why misfortune befell you, you try to find all the information you can get, the lesson you can learn, the most positive outcome and the most opportune moment to turn misfortune into your advantage, rising again, stronger and wiser. You have keen eyes that can notice opportunities from miles away and an open heart that can welcome those opportunities, which makes you seem like a very lucky person to the onlookers.

Your mind is your greatest asset that can make you rise in this world. You don't let valuable information slip through your mind, you examine it with curiosity and intense focus, extract from it the essence that can be used for the future. Your mind is not just geared with sheer laser focus, but also an ability for intuitive abstract thinking, it reminds me of genius, how it can weave all the bits of information into a fantastical picture. If something captured your attention, you would dive deeply into it, try to understand its core. This makes you an excellent researcher or someone who can do works that require focus and resilience. You can also read people accurately right from the first few exchanges and can adjust your approach accordingly. It's not about people pleasing, charming people to get your way, it's tact and understanding, thesr traits will make you greatly attractive, not just on one on one level but also on a bigger scale, in a professional environment or when you need to address a crowd.

Your energy is very balanced between masculine and feminine energy. It's both nurturing and authoritative. Drive and intuition, active and passive, strong yet soft. You shine but you also let others shine too, you don't steal other's light, if anything, you help them shine even brighter. Being with you makes people feel safe, at ease. You allow people to be themselves without ridicule or judgement. But you can also firmly lead people, giving them guidance and security. You can be serious but not rigid and cold, you can be chatty without being superficial, charming without hidden motives. These traits would develop gradually over the years, you will find that as you get older, you'll be more sure of yourself and more confident in front of people, stepping into your authority more, like growing a tree for many years and finally you can enjoy the sweet fruits.

WHITE

Right of the bat, the word "refreshing" came to my mind. You have a unique take on everything, from the most trivial matters to the worldly philosophical thoughts that you have, everything is different from the usual way many people are used to. People would definitely want to come to you when they're stuck in a problem and uninspired, they know that you will always have something unique to say to them, making them more aware of hidden aspects at play and a fresh solution. Problem solving could be one of your greatest skills. But it's not the logical, factual thinking that is usually associated with problem solving, it's highly intuitive. Your mind hovers between the collective thinking and the individual paths each person can have, you can synthesise those two worlds into an abstract thinking system that can get hold of information seemingly out of thin air and mix and match them together flexibly. You instinctively understand what people want and you deliver it, with a new twist. Your ideas are the road to manifest whatever your wishes are.

Not just mentally, but emotionally, you also express yourself truthfully, without trivialise other's emotions or making them feel ignored. You respect emotions, both of yourself and of others, creating an emotionally safe space that can foster trust. Commerce and sales might be the areas where you can express that strong point. Your emotional intelligence also adds charm to your physical appeal. You know how people always praise the eyes that are full of emotions and light? When you're in touch with emotions, your eyes show, and they beckon people to them. Your manner, your aura shows a charm that is real and earthy, nothing elusive or deceptive about it, like walking in an actual orchard instead of looking at it from a picture. You can see, touch, smell, hear all the things happening around you.

You also rarely judge people, if you do, it's not harsh or too triggering. You adopt the mentality of going with the flow, live and let live. You don't demand from people, other than respect for your boundaries and privacy, which you value above all else. Other than those, you let people live their way without imposing your beliefs on them. This open-minded attitude is very important when you're working in a team, you provide ideas, but you likely don't want to control and lead people. Though you could find yourself in the leader position often simply because the one with the good ideas usually is nominated to be the leader. You're fine working for others. But if you're in a leadership, you lead with leniency, allowing enough rooms for individuality to shine.

This might be a bit random, but you can be a good cook or a good decorator. If you're tasked with decorating an event or a living space, or just making anything aesthetically pleasing, you'll be surprised how positive people's receptions are. If this is not something you're aware of about yourself, you should pay more attention to it and develop it, it can open new career opportunities for you.

RED

There's a method to your madness, not that I'm saying you're mad or crazy, but you can think up some outlandish and original ideas, a little bit "out there". What people don't understand is that behind all those seemingly random and genius ideas is a very disciplined spirit. There's logic and sound reasons behind your every action. What people perceived were just the puppets playing on the stage, they didn't see the puppeteer controlling the puppets. Every action and word require fine skill, but you have the ability to make them seem effortless. Your mind is like the sky during a thunderstorm, thoughts and ideas zigzagging, making flashes that blind the eyes. What you say can be very spontaneous or somewhat irrelevant at first glance, but thinking deeper, people can't help but marvel. You might also have a knack of predicting the trends, always one step ahead. Creative careers of course would be very suitable for you, but you can also find success in predictive analytics or education. Your words need to be delivered to the world, they're your greatest contributions.

You have an air of feeling at ease with wherever places you're. You might be someone doing an independent freelance job, but then if suddenly, you're to be placed in the position of leadership or a completely different job, you wouldn't be fazed by it, you go into it as if it's the most natural thing to do, as if you've done this a million times. This air of confidence and ease makes people want to give you opportunities, to trust you with important tasks and jobs.

When you're faced with an unfamiliar subject, you would patiently deconstruct it into an understandable structure. There's an intense focus being put on it, not just to understand it but to master it. To be the object of your focus would akin to being scrutinised and studied by a scientist. You can be a quite obsessive and hyper focused when you're interested in something. Especially when you want to achieve a goal or possess something, you go with all your might, there's no fear, no hang-up involved, because you're not afraid to be judged. Your inner drive roots in the ideal vision you seek, not in simple egotistical desires like wanting to be recognised or praised. You might actually shun publicity or attention, because attention can curb your freedom, which is what you seek and value the most. So you're fine with working behind the screen, as long as you can achieve your goals, and those goals are usually about advancement and improvement of something that can benefit the collective.

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shycloudkitty · 1 month ago

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Just one more minute...

Summary: Your husband has to leave for yet another mission but he's not quite ready to let you go yet… So he just savors…each… moment…

Pairing: Death Island! Leon × Fem reader

Tags: a bit angsty but lots of comfort, Leon sleeping peacefully for once in his life, fluff, established relationship. Just overall a short comfy read <3

WC: 1.3K

Small droplets of rain splatter on the windows of your bedroom. The soft sound created a soothing lullaby for the ears for those who were sleeping to it. The cloudy weather and the chill air contributed in making it the most serene environment while you stay snuggled up peacefully in your husband's arms with a warm blanket over you.

His arms stayed around your waist holding you gently in a warm embrace, face nuzzling your hair, gentle breathing warming your neck. This was always his favorite position to fall asleep to. Your smell, your soft touch, your weight beneath him, telling him that you were really here… You were real.

Your arms were wrapped around his bare torso and face buried in his chest. Feeling his body warmth seep into your skin. Limbs trained to take life, now just protecting you from the chill air and comforting you in your sleep.

It was such a simple moment, just a couple sleeping and relaxing in each other's comfort. But at the same time it was so rare between you two. Just having these simple moments with him felt like a blessing. It was heaven.

And why wasn't it normal for both of you? Right. He had a job of saving the world, do or die, special agent... You get the idea. Except his job wasn't exactly a James Bond one. That only happened in movies. No, this was more grim than what they show in the movies. But what can you do when these are the cards life dealt you with?

But he always felt inspired by you, how you handled every situation thrown at you with grace. Obviously, he wasn't a fool, he could see it was tough but still tried your best. Even in this relationship, you handle everything with so much love and care…he never had someone who sticked with him more than a few months let alone actually get married to.

He didn’t hold anything against his exes, like his life was basically swamped with work so he understood why they left. What was actually confusing? You staying in his life, despite everything. You stayed even when he missed some of the important moments of your life. Sadly, that was the reality of his job. You win some, you lose some.

He was obviously happy that you stayed with him despite everything but he never quite understood why? He couldn't help but ask you this question. He remembers seeing your cheeks get red, avoiding his gaze and softly saying ‘I love you’. He also recalls saying ‘thank you’ in response because of how flustered he got from the confession.

That memory always makes him facepalm himself.

After the day of your confession it was like his world flipped. And even though he didn't understand it fully at the time he wanted to do everything in his power to keep you in his life, even if it meant catering to your every whim. He listened to everything you said, trying to remember the best he could.

He actually has a secret folder on his phone containing everything about your likes and dislikes just in case he needs a refresher.

He didn’t even realize when it happened but he fell in love with you and wanted to keep you in his life forever. Thankfully, you felt the same way when he got down on one knee and asked if you wanted to marry him. He almost lost the ring with how nervous he was, fidgeting with the ring box in his pocket every 5 minutes.

It's been a few years since he tied down the knot with you and it was the best decision of his life. Sure, being married presents its own set of problems, sometimes things get rocky between you two, but there was nothing you both couldn't solve. Sometimes the problems needed talking, other times he could tell without you saying a word. But each time he makes it known that he loves you. Always.

The soft rain slowly stirs Leon awake, he glances at his surroundings and then looks down at your sleeping face with his bleary eyes. He yawns and rubs his eyes, the digital clock on his nightstand read 6:30am.

It was still half an hour early before he had to go to work today for some missing person assignment Hunnigan gave out. He didn’t wanna go but apparently it was top priority and needs his immediate attention. He told you about it last night, you weren't exactly happy since it was last minute but at this point you had grown used to it.

He tilts his head and looks at your serene face, caressing your cheek and sighing. His lips press a soft kiss on your forehead and gently threads his fingers through your hair. His voice comes as a soft whisper. “I don't wanna go either… you know that, right?” You probably knew how he felt about going too. You could read him like a book at this point.

His eyes flit through your soft features, taking note of your breathing, slow and deep, fully relaxed. He smiles to himself and whispers in the same soft voice. “God, you’re so beautiful. You always are.” he lovingly brushes some hair out of your face. “I'm really lucky I get to see you like this, feels like I'm in heaven even if I probably won't ever go there. You do so much for us, I wish I could just stop this moment for us and never let go.”

He sighs softly and slowly pulls you closer to the warmth of his chest, trying not to jostle you too much. He closes his eyes briefly, focusing on your warmth. And starts mumbling to himself. “Honestly, if I was a poet I would have written dozens of poems about you. They probably would have been corny but you would have liked it.”

He gently starts brushing your hair again and continues. “But since I'm not… I don't have enough words to fully express how much you mean to me. The fact that we’re still together, makes me the luckiest fool ever lived. My heart hurts sometimes because of how happy I get cause of you.”

He sighs and mumbles. “I'm not normal…never have been. But with you…I feel that I finally became the man that I was supposed to be. And that I finally have a place called home."

He scoffs to himself, shaking his head. He didn't know what had possessed to become so sentimental this early. “I'm really cheesy aren't I?”

He felt soft teardrops on his chest where your face was resting. You had woken up from his rambling.

His heart clenches from realization. He gulps, feeling the sudden lump rise up in his throat. He hugs you tighter and rubs your bare back. “I will come back, I promise.” Softly pressing a kiss on your shoulder.

He glances at the time again. It was nearly 6:55am. He had to start getting ready for work.

He slowly tilts your face, wiping away the tears from your shining eyes. His expression softens, cupping your face in his hands and softly kisses you. He feels you kiss him back, your grip on his arm tight.

After a few moments you both slowly pull back from the kiss, eyes closed, foreheads resting against one another, soft breathing filling the quiet room. He softly mumbles. “I have to get ready now sweetheart.”

He feels you shake your head in response. Your soft voice fills the room. “No…wait for few more minutes. Just stay.”

He gulps and nods. He wasn't strong enough to deny that request. He pulls you close, covering both of you in the blanket. “Of course, darling.” And press soft kisses on your shoulder.

Enjoying these quiet moments of solace with you. Even if he couldn't make this moment last forever, he knew he would come back to relish it again...

Usually I wouldn't say this but I would very much appreciate it if you left comments, obviously if you want to. It helps me improve and encourages me to write more. 😊❤

-Bella

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esotericalchemist · 4 months ago

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𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 - 𝐌𝐚𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐱 𝐨𝐟 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐲 ☾

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The Portrait Zone in the Matrix of Destiny represents how others perceive an individual and the external image they project into the world. It reveals the outer persona, the way people relate to the individual, and the impressions they create based on their actions and behavior. This zone highlights qualities that are easily recognizable by others, such as charm, authority, wisdom, or unpredictability. Understanding the energies in the Portrait Zone helps individuals become aware of how they are seen by others and can provide insight into how they can enhance or refine their external interactions and relationships.

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1 - The Magician

The 1st Arcanum in this position manifests itself as the energy of a "Pioneer" or "The Magician," reflecting how others perceive the individual as someone who possesses immense potential, leadership, and the capability to create and inspire. This energy radiates authority, confidence, and a pioneering spirit, making others see the individual as someone who can push boundaries and lead new initiatives. They often appear as people who hold the fire of creation, ready to take on challenges with courage.

However, this external perception of power might not always align with their inner reality. While the world sees them as bold and innovative, internally, they may struggle with doubts and the fear of failure. If this energy is negatively expressed, it can lead to overcompensation, where the individual might act overconfident or harsh, while feeling deeply insecure beneath the surface.

In its positive manifestation, the 1st Arcanum brings out a strong sense of innovation, leadership, and the drive to bring new ideas into reality. People are drawn to their magnetic energy, seeing them as trailblazers capable of making significant contributions to any field. The challenge for the individual is to balance this outward projection of power with an inner belief in their abilities, rather than relying solely on external validation.

2 - The High Priestess

The 2nd Arcanum in this position manifests itself as "The Secret" or "The High Priestess" in the Tarot. It reflects how others perceive the individual as someone mysterious, enigmatic, and deeply intuitive. They are often seen as keepers of hidden knowledge, possessing an air of wisdom and secrecy that draws people in. Their ability to understand the unseen and their natural inclination toward spiritual or mystical matters makes them appear insightful and almost otherworldly.

Internally, however, these individuals may feel detached from reality, lost in their own world of thoughts, illusions, and spiritual contemplation. They might struggle with balancing their inner truth and the external world, sometimes feeling misunderstood or isolated due to their deeper understanding of life's mysteries. When negatively expressed, this energy can manifest as secrecy, mistrust, and emotional distance. They might become withdrawn, overly secretive, or lost in illusions, unable to connect with others.

When positively aligned, the 2nd Arcanum enhances their intuitive abilities, allowing them to access deeper truths and guide others with their wisdom. They are seen as trusted confidants who can help others unravel life's mysteries. Their key challenge is to stay grounded while embracing their intuitive insights, ensuring they don’t lose touch with reality while navigating the spiritual and the mystical.

3 - The Empress

The 3rd Arcanum in this position manifests itself as "Femininity" or "The Empress" in the Tarot. It reflects how others perceive the individual as someone embodying nurturing energy, beauty, and creativity. This energy often gives off an aura of fertility, warmth, and caring, making the person seem naturally maternal or supportive. Others may view them as a source of comfort and inspiration, someone who has the ability to foster growth and provide emotional support.

Internally, these individuals might feel a strong connection to family and heritage, particularly the feminine lineage. Their sense of identity often revolves around caring for others, creating beauty, and cultivating harmony in their surroundings. When negatively expressed, however, this energy can manifest as feelings of inadequacy or self-neglect, leading to issues with self-worth or the inability to express their nurturing side. They may also struggle with rejecting their femininity or overburdening themselves with responsibilities.

When positively aligned, the 3rd Arcanum enhances the individual’s ability to create abundance, support others, and cultivate an environment of love and care. They are seen as graceful and harmonious, able to create beauty in both their personal and professional lives. Their key strength lies in their capacity to nurture, whether in relationships, creative endeavors, or even business.

4 - The Emperor

The 4th Arcanum in this position manifests itself as "Masculinity" or "The Emperor" in the Tarot. It reflects how others perceive the individual as strong, authoritative, and someone who embodies leadership. This person is seen as a protector, a figure who takes responsibility for others, and someone who provides structure and stability. Their presence exudes a sense of command, making them natural leaders in various aspects of life, including family and work.

Internally, these individuals may feel a constant need to control their environment and take charge of situations. They have a strong sense of duty and responsibility, especially toward their family or close circle. However, when negatively expressed, this energy can manifest as excessive control, harshness, or even authoritarian behavior, pushing others away or creating unnecessary tension. They might struggle with accepting help or relying on others, leading to frustration or aggression when things don't go their way.

When positively aligned, the 4th Arcanum enhances the individual’s ability to lead with wisdom and strength. They become reliable pillars in their communities, offering support and guidance. Their actions are driven by responsibility, and they create an environment of security and order, both at home and in professional settings. The key to their success lies in balancing their need for control with the ability to trust and delegate, ensuring they don't overwhelm themselves or others with their strong energy.

5 - The Hierophant

The 5th Arcanum in this position manifests itself as "Knowledge" or "The Hierophant" in the Tarot. This energy reflects how others perceive the individual as a wise figure, a source of knowledge, and someone who upholds traditions and faith. People often see them as educators, spiritual guides, or those who inspire others with their deep understanding of life, ethics, and higher truths. They tend to be regarded as mentors, transmitting wisdom and helping others find their path.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a desire to learn and spread knowledge, always seeking to understand the deeper meaning of existence. They are devoted to a mission of learning and teaching, often feeling a sense of responsibility to share their insights with others. However, when this energy is negatively manifested, they can become rigid, overly critical, and preachy. Their need to instruct others may turn into an obsession with being right, leading them to impose their views and stifle those around them.

When positively aligned, the 5th Arcanum enhances their ability to inspire and guide with compassion, using their knowledge to uplift others. They become figures of authority in matters of faith and learning, embodying a deep connection to tradition while remaining open to new ideas. Their energy flows when they strike a balance between being teachers and learners, continually evolving while helping others along their spiritual or intellectual journeys.

6 - The Lovers

The 6th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as Love or The Lovers in the Tarot. In this position, this energy shapes how others perceive the individual as charming, graceful, and attractive, both in appearance and demeanor. People with the 6th Arcanum in this position are often seen as very charismatic, easily able to engage with others, and naturally drawing people toward them. Their ability to form connections and communicate harmoniously is their key strength, making them appear as peacemakers and social butterflies.

Externally, they are viewed as individuals who value beauty, relationships, and emotional connection. They are often admired for their sense of style, their ability to create harmony in their environment, and the grace with which they interact with others. People see them as magnetic, with an aura of elegance and warmth that makes others feel comfortable around them.

When negatively manifested, others might perceive them as overly concerned with their appearance or with what others think of them. This can lead to superficiality or a tendency to seek approval and validation from their social circle. On the other hand, when positively aligned, the 6th Arcanum enhances their ability to form genuine, loving connections, bringing beauty, love, and balance into all aspects of their life, both in their relationships and within themselves.

7 - The chariot

The 7th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as Movement or The Chariot in the Tarot. This energy shapes how others perceive the individual as dynamic, driven, and constantly in motion. They are seen as people who are always on the go, with a clear sense of direction and purpose. To others, these individuals often appear unstoppable, focused on their goals, and willing to push through any obstacles that come their way. Their swift, decisive actions and leadership skills make them seem like natural-born achievers.

Externally, they are viewed as highly energetic and capable of motivating others, often taking the lead in moving things forward. They seem to thrive in competitive environments and are admired for their ability to stay one step ahead.

When negatively manifested, others may see them as reckless or too aggressive, rushing forward without fully considering the consequences. In contrast, when this energy is positively aligned, they inspire admiration for their determination and ability to turn ideas into action, making them seem like people who always know where they’re going and how to get there.

8 - Justice

The 8th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as Responsibility or Justice and shapes how others perceive the individual. People tend to view them as extremely reliable, disciplined, and principled. These individuals are often seen as figures of authority who bring order and stability wherever they go. They are recognized for their fairness and their commitment to doing what is morally or ethically right, even when it’s difficult.

Externally, they may be perceived as people who naturally enforce rules and maintain balance, whether in their personal relationships or professional settings. Their approach to life appears structured, thoughtful, and purposeful, and they often inspire respect due to their strong ethical stance.

When negatively manifested, others might see them as overly rigid or judgmental, enforcing rules without flexibility and becoming harsh in their pursuit of justice. However, in their positive form, they radiate wisdom and the ability to make impartial, well-considered decisions that benefit everyone around them.

9 - The Hermit

The 9th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Hermit in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as deeply introspective and wise, often seeming distant or detached from the hustle of everyday life. They come across as highly reflective and mature, someone who contemplates life's deeper meanings rather than focusing on surface-level interactions. Because of this, they can seem mysterious, reserved, and even somewhat cold to those around them, though their wisdom and insights are undeniable. They often act as advisors or quiet observers who provide profound knowledge when asked.

While others might admire their wisdom, they may also find them challenging to connect with on a personal level, as they tend to retreat into their own world of thoughts and reflection. Their solitary nature can create a perception of aloofness, but it also generates respect for their depth and intelligence.

When negatively manifested, these individuals can appear overly distant, arrogant, or self-absorbed, convinced that their understanding surpasses everyone else's. Their solitude may turn into loneliness or isolation, causing difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. On the positive side, however, their energy draws others toward them as guides or sages, as they are able to offer invaluable advice and understanding in complex situations, encouraging others to explore deeper truths.

10 - The Hermit

The 10th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Wheel of Fortune in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as adaptable and fortunate, often experiencing highs and lows in life but seemingly always landing on their feet. They appear to have a natural connection to the cycles of destiny and are seen as flexible, able to navigate change and uncertainty with ease. This gives them an air of unpredictability, yet also resilience, as if life’s twists and turns work in their favor more often than not. People may view them as lucky or blessed, even when they seem to face difficult situations.

Internally, these individuals feel deeply connected to the flow of life, understanding that both positive and negative experiences are part of the same cycle. They often possess a calm acceptance of life's unpredictability and have faith that things will eventually turn out well. However, when negatively manifested, they may become passive, overly reliant on fortune, or fail to take responsibility for their circumstances. This can lead to others perceiving them as lacking direction or control over their own lives.

When positively aligned, individuals with the 10th Arcanum in this zone inspire others through their ability to embrace change and remain optimistic. They show how to ride the waves of fate gracefully, encouraging others to let go of excessive control and trust in the natural ebb and flow of life. Their light-hearted approach and belief in destiny often lead to remarkable success, as they seem to attract good fortune at just the right moments.

11 - Strength

The 11th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Strength card in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as strong, both mentally and emotionally, with an impressive ability to overcome obstacles and handle challenges with grace. They are often seen as resilient and determined, possessing an inner power that radiates outward. This energy makes them appear courageous and capable of handling difficult situations, often inspiring others to draw upon their own strength. People are naturally drawn to them for guidance, seeing them as capable of bringing calm and order even in turbulent times.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a deep sense of personal power and confidence. They have a quiet but profound belief in their ability to endure and persevere, even when faced with significant difficulties. However, when negatively manifested, they may become overbearing or attempt to control situations and people too rigidly, mistaking force for strength. In this state, they can come off as domineering or inflexible, pushing others away with their need to assert control.

When positively aligned, individuals with the 11th Arcanum in this position shine as natural leaders, demonstrating how true strength lies not in brute force but in inner resolve, patience, and understanding. They are able to gently guide others, creating an atmosphere of stability and trust, and are often seen as protectors or advocates for those who need support. Their ability to balance power with compassion makes them pillars of strength in their communities.

12 - The Hanged Man

The 12th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Hanged Man in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as people who approach life from a different perspective, often appearing unconventional or detached from the material world. Their energy gives off a sense of sacrifice, surrender, or patience, as though they are willing to wait or let go of control to gain deeper spiritual or philosophical insights. This can make them seem mysterious or enigmatic to those around them, as they often resist the norms of society in favor of their inner truth.

Internally, these individuals are reflective, searching for meaning beyond what is easily visible. They are willing to endure discomfort or delay gratification to achieve a higher understanding or a deeper sense of purpose. When negatively manifested, they can come across as passive, stagnant, or even as martyrs, trapped in indecision or a state of inaction. They may struggle with moving forward, feeling stuck in their own thoughts or awaiting external change that never comes.

When positively aligned, the 12th Arcanum reveals a person who has mastered the art of surrender and trust in life's natural flow. Their patience, resilience, and ability to see things from alternative perspectives often inspire others, helping them navigate difficult circumstances with wisdom and grace. These individuals can guide others in finding peace amid uncertainty and in recognizing that sometimes, growth requires letting go.

13 - Death

The 13th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as Death in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as transformative forces in life, often symbolizing profound change, renewal, or endings. They may come across as intense, mysterious, and even unsettling, as their energy often signals a break from the past or an unavoidable transition. People with this energy are seen as catalysts for transformation, able to bring closure to old situations and pave the way for new beginnings, though they might also be perceived as harbingers of sudden or unexpected changes.

Internally, these individuals are deeply connected to cycles of death and rebirth, understanding the necessity of letting go in order to grow. They are often reflective and accepting of the impermanence of life, recognizing that transformation is a constant. When negatively manifested, they may appear destructive, obsessive, or stuck in a cycle of loss, unable to release the past or move forward. Their energy can be experienced as overwhelming or disorienting to others, especially when they resist the changes they themselves need to undergo.

When positively aligned, the 13th Arcanum embodies a powerful force for renewal and regeneration. These individuals are capable of navigating life’s transitions with grace and insight, helping others accept change and embrace new possibilities. Their ability to bring closure and initiate rebirth makes them a guiding figure for others during times of upheaval or transformation, inspiring growth and resilience.

14 - Temperance

The 14th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as Temperance in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as balanced, calm, and composed, often seeming to embody harmony and moderation in all they do. They come across as peacemakers, able to blend opposing forces or perspectives with ease, and are often seen as patient and wise, someone who naturally promotes equilibrium in both personal and social situations. Their presence is soothing, as they are known for their ability to handle conflicts with grace and to maintain a steady and controlled demeanor.

Internally, these individuals strive for inner balance and a sense of unity between their emotional and rational sides. They are constantly working toward self-improvement through careful moderation and restraint, always seeking to find the middle ground. When negatively manifested, they may appear indecisive or overly passive, unable to take bold actions for fear of disrupting the harmony they seek to maintain. This could cause them to miss opportunities due to a tendency to avoid confrontation or significant changes.

When positively aligned, the 14th Arcanum allows these individuals to act as natural mediators and healers. They have the ability to inspire others through their example of patience and moderation, fostering a sense of peace and cooperation. Their energy encourages others to find balance in their own lives, as they skillfully navigate life’s challenges with poise and thoughtful deliberation.

15 - The Devil

The 15th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Devil in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as intense, magnetic, and sometimes overwhelming. They may be seen as possessing a powerful, even dark, allure that draws people toward them, though often with a sense of caution. People might interpret their energy as dominant or controlling, leading to a perception of manipulation or hidden motives, especially if these individuals are focused on their personal desires and ambitions. Their intense presence can make them appear seductive, charismatic, or dangerously captivating.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a strong desire to break free from limitations, both external and internal. They may constantly wrestle with material attachments, power dynamics, or primal instincts, seeking to satisfy deep desires or gain control over their environment. When this energy is negatively manifested, they can become consumed by their own impulses, leading to unhealthy relationships, addictive behaviors, or an overemphasis on materialism and self-gratification. This can make them appear obsessive or manipulative to others, creating toxic dynamics in their connections.

When positively aligned, however, the 15th Arcanum allows them to use their inner strength and magnetism to empower themselves and others. They learn to harness their deep desires in a constructive way, transforming challenges into opportunities for growth. Their energy then becomes a source of empowerment for those around them, helping others break free from their own limitations and fears, and encouraging them to face life’s darker truths with courage and honesty.

16 - The Tower

The 16th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as The Tower in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as catalysts for significant change or disruption. They often appear to challenge the status quo, either consciously or unconsciously, which can lead others to see them as unpredictable or even destructive. People around them might feel uneasy or unsettled by their presence, as they have a tendency to bring about shifts that force those in their environment to confront uncomfortable truths or face sudden upheavals.

Internally, individuals with the 16th Arcanum are often undergoing deep personal transformations. They may experience sudden revelations or abrupt changes in their own lives, which can feel like a collapse of old structures or belief systems. These individuals are driven by a need to rebuild their lives on more solid foundations, even if it means going through painful or difficult periods of destruction first. This energy can lead to profound personal growth, but it also comes with the risk of chaos and instability.

When negatively manifested, these individuals may become agents of destruction, causing unnecessary chaos or harm in their relationships and surroundings. They might tear things down without considering the consequences, leaving others hurt or confused. On the positive side, when aligned with their higher purpose, they serve as powerful forces for renewal, helping themselves and others break free from old limitations and create stronger, more authentic structures in their lives. Their role becomes that of a transformative force, pushing for the necessary changes that lead to deeper understanding and growth.

17 - The Star

The 17th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "The Star" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as beacons of hope, inspiration, and renewal. They often come across as calm, serene, and deeply connected to their higher ideals, projecting a sense of optimism and healing energy. People are naturally drawn to them because of their ability to uplift others and provide guidance in times of difficulty. They may be seen as dreamers or visionaries, possessing an inner light that inspires those around them.

Internally, individuals with the 17th Arcanum are often driven by a deep sense of purpose and a desire to bring about positive change. They have a strong connection to their spiritual or creative sides, seeking to manifest their dreams and ideals in the physical world. This energy provides them with clarity, allowing them to remain focused on their goals despite any challenges they face.

When negatively manifested, these individuals may become overly idealistic or disconnected from reality, placing too much emphasis on dreams without taking practical steps to achieve them. They might struggle with feelings of disappointment or frustration if their high expectations are not met. However, when positively aligned, they serve as sources of inspiration and guidance, helping others to see the potential for growth and renewal in even the most challenging situations. Their ability to maintain faith and optimism in the face of adversity makes them true symbols of hope and perseverance.

18 - The Moon

The 18th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "The Moon" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as deeply intuitive, mysterious, and often enigmatic. There is an aura of complexity and depth around them, as they seem to operate on a different wavelength, guided by their inner feelings and subconscious thoughts. People might see them as dreamers or those who dwell in realms of fantasy and emotion, but this also makes them intriguing and captivating to be around. Their intuition often leads them to insights others might miss, though this can also make them appear unpredictable.

Internally, these individuals are highly sensitive and deeply connected to their subconscious mind. They may frequently experience emotional highs and lows, navigating between reality and illusion. The energy of the Moon drives them to explore the hidden sides of life, such as dreams, fears, and the subconscious. This can result in powerful inner guidance but may also lead them down paths of confusion or self-deception if not carefully managed.

When negatively manifested, the energy of the 18th Arcanum can lead to fears, anxieties, and a tendency to get lost in illusions or deceptive situations. These individuals may struggle with clarity, allowing doubts and insecurities to cloud their judgment. However, when positively aligned, they can tap into their intuition and emotions to help themselves and others uncover hidden truths. Their sensitivity allows them to guide others through emotional and spiritual challenges, making them empathetic and insightful companions.

19 - The Sun

The 19th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "The Sun" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as radiant, optimistic, and full of life. They often seem to light up the room with their presence, exuding warmth and positivity that draws others toward them. These individuals are seen as confident and inspiring, often serving as a beacon of hope or a source of motivation for those around them. Their energy is uplifting, and they are perceived as people who bring clarity and joy to every situation.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a strong sense of purpose and self-expression. They seek fulfillment through their ability to shine and to be recognized for their talents and contributions. The energy of the Sun within them fosters a sense of abundance and success, allowing them to face life's challenges with confidence and resilience. They are naturally inclined to pursue goals that allow them to share their inner light with the world.

When negatively manifested, this energy can lead to arrogance, an inflated ego, or a need for constant attention. They may become too focused on external validation, leading them to neglect deeper connections or overlook the needs of others. However, when positively aligned, these individuals embody true leadership and a generous spirit, capable of bringing joy, positivity, and growth to everyone they encounter.

20 - Judgment

The 20th Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "Judgment" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as transformative and awakening forces in their lives. They often carry an air of destiny, as if they are here to bring about change or guide others through pivotal moments of self-realization. People around them might see them as catalysts for growth or spiritual renewal, as they naturally bring others to confront deeper truths or decisions. They are often recognized for their wisdom in matters of karma, fate, and life’s ultimate purpose.

Internally, these individuals are constantly evolving, driven by a deep need to align with their higher purpose. The energy of Judgment pushes them to reflect on their past actions, decisions, and experiences, often leading them to life-altering revelations. This inner quest for renewal helps them guide others through their own personal transformations. However, they may also carry a burden of responsibility, feeling called to help those around them achieve clarity and purpose.

When negatively manifested, they may become overly critical or judgmental, both of themselves and others. This can lead to unnecessary pressure and feelings of inadequacy. However, when this energy is positively aligned, they serve as powerful guides for others, offering insight, wisdom, and support in times of great personal change and awakening. They embody the energy of rebirth, helping people rise to new levels of understanding and spiritual growth.

21 - The World

The 21st Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "The World" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as complete, whole, and fulfilled. They are seen as people who have a strong sense of achievement and harmony, often exuding a sense of accomplishment and mastery over their lives. People around them may view them as a source of balance and stability, seeing in them the embodiment of someone who has successfully navigated life’s challenges and reached a state of inner and outer success.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a desire for fulfillment, unity, and integration. They have a deep connection to their life’s journey and often feel a sense of purpose in bringing things to completion. The energy of "The World" signifies a natural flow of cycles, where they understand the importance of endings and new beginnings. This understanding allows them to navigate life's transitions gracefully and with a sense of acceptance and peace.

When negatively manifested, they may struggle with feelings of incompletion, fearing that they have not reached their potential or that something is missing in their lives. This can lead to a sense of restlessness or dissatisfaction, even when they have achieved much. On the positive side, however, they bring harmony, completeness, and fulfillment not only to their own lives but also to those around them, guiding others toward personal wholeness and satisfaction.

22- The Fool

The 22nd Arcanum in the Portrait zone manifests itself as "The Fool" in the Tarot. Others perceive these individuals as free-spirited, unconventional, and spontaneous. They come across as people who move through life without fear, embracing adventure and the unknown. This energy gives them an air of unpredictability, often making them seem carefree or even reckless, but also charming and open to life’s endless possibilities. People see them as unburdened by the constraints of society, norms, or traditions, which makes them appear youthful, exciting, and full of potential.

Internally, these individuals are driven by a desire for freedom, exploration, and new experiences. They often feel disconnected from the concept of rigid structures, choosing instead to follow their intuition and embrace the moment. This gives them a unique ability to adapt to changing circumstances and see the beauty in life's mysteries, allowing them to view life through a fresh, almost childlike lens.

When negatively manifested, these individuals can appear irresponsible, directionless, or naive, making impulsive decisions without considering the consequences. Their lack of foresight may lead to chaotic situations, where they feel lost or overwhelmed. However, when positively aligned, they bring inspiration, creativity, and a zest for life to those around them, encouraging others to embrace uncertainty and take bold steps toward their dreams.

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rasha-ahmed2002 · 1 month ago

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On the morning of October 7th

Gaza woke up to the sound of bombings and explosions, as if the sky had opened to rain fire that would never stop. In a small neighborhood filled with simple dreams, lived Ahmed, a hardworking man trying to provide for his family, his loving and patient wife Rasha, their one-year-old daughter Mariam, and their newborn baby Suleiman, just a month old. 🏠💔

As the bombings intensified and houses collapsed around them, Ahmed realized their home, the place where they built their memories, was no longer safe. In a moment of panic, he grabbed his two children—Mariam, who clung to him crying, and baby Suleiman, too small to understand the chaos. Rasha, her hands trembling, tried to pack whatever she could—diapers, a milk bottle, and some warm clothes. Everything happened so fast, as if they were racing against death itself. 🏃‍♂️👩‍🍼

They fled south, where they were told there might be temporary safety. But the journey was a nightmare. Ahmed walked with a heavy heart, every step feeling like a piece of his soul was being torn away. 💔 Mariam sobbed in fear and hunger, while Suleiman whimpered weakly in his arms. Rasha followed closely, carrying a small bag, her eyes filled with tears, terrified of losing everything.

After hours of walking, they arrived at what was described as a "safe place." It was nothing more than an open field crowded with families who had also lost their homes. They found shelter under a tree 🌳, feeling like their world had collapsed. With only a thin blanket to protect them from the cold, Mariam fell asleep in her mother's arms, while Suleiman cried out of hunger—there was no more milk left. 🍼❌

Ahmed sat at a distance, staring at his family with helplessness. He remembered his small shop, the place where he worked every day, and how Mariam used to run to greet him with a smile when he came home. Now, he had nothing left—no home, no job, not even hope. 😔

Rasha, despite her pain, tried to stay strong. But every night, she cried silently as she looked at her two children, wondering how she would feed them or keep them safe. The days dragged on, each one heavier than the last, bringing more despair with it.

One day, Ahmed received news that the shop where he worked had been completely destroyed. It felt like another knife had pierced his heart. He didn’t know how he could start over again or rebuild his life in a world shattered by war. 🏚️💔

As time passed, all they had left were memories. Memories of their small home that once held them together, Mariam’s first laughter, and the sweet scent of newborn Suleiman. These memories became their only treasure as they faced an uncertain future.💔💔

The war had stolen everything from them, but it couldn’t steal their love for one another. ❤️ Every night, Ahmed would tell Rasha, “We will rebuild everything one day. Not just for us, but for Mariam and Suleiman. They are our only hope.”

But even that hope seemed like a distant mirage, a glimmer of light in a desert of pain. ✨

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transandrobroism · 6 months ago

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an observation from several posts/conversations that could really help in avoiding a lot of misunderstandings: often when people talk about 'transmisogyny', they are using the term 'transmisogyny' to mean at least three different things simultaneously and conflating different meanings of the term in discussions. in general usage i've seen 'transmisogyny' used to mean:

transmisogyny-as-phenomena - i.e. 'transmisogyny' as a term for the intersection of transphobia and misogyny, a common feature of transfems' experiences;

transmisogyny-as-framework - in which transmisogyny is elevated to the level of a conceptual framework for understanding all transphobia. under this meaning everyone is encouraged/expected to conceptualise their experiences of transphobia through the lens of transmisogyny and run it through a filter of "how does this relate back to transmisogyny as the primary driving force for all transphobia"

on top of this both uses of the term are also conflated with the TMA/TME framework that divides people into two neat categories of those affected or primarily targeted by transmisogyny (transmisogyny affected, or TMA) and those exempt from transmisogyny and only accidentally impacted by it (transmisogyny exempt, or TME).

conflating all these meanings with each other is how you end up with soggy takes like "rejecting the label of TME is denying transfems the right to define and discuss their own oppression" which is a real thing that someone (transmasc) said to me. treating these concepts as all interchangeable meanings of the term transmisogyny contributes to a lot of the discourse and (frankly) animosity about discussions of transandrophobia, because when someone says something like "idk i just don't think transmisogyny is adequate as a robust framework for understanding how all transphobia works" or "dividing the world into TMA/TME is a flawed way of viewing transphobia and replicates the gender binary we're all trying to dismantle", that's a critique of transmisogyny-as-framework, but is read as a rejection of transmisogyny-as-phenomena, and thus is viewed as invalidating transfems' experiences.

add to that the fact that i've seen some people insist that transmisogyny is not just an umbrella term for the ways transfems experience transphobia but just means the intersection of transphobia and misogyny - but at the same time people insist that AFAB (trans) people are all exempt from transmisogyny by default and that our experiences should be discussed as 'misdirected transmisogyny'. which renders the de facto meaning of the term 'transmisogyny' an umbrella term for transfem experiences from which anyone not transfem is exempt.

the conflation of terms and definitions means any critique of transmisogyny or TMA/TME is taken as a denial of transfems' experiences. it also means that when transmascs propose a term like 'transandrophobia' - meaning the intersection of the identity positions of 'trans' and 'man', or more broadly a term for commonly-shared experiences of transmascs - that's read as an argument that all men are systemically oppressed for being men (it's not) and/or that transmascs are proposing transandrophobia-as-framework (again, not the case). but because 'transmisogyny' can refer interchangeably to both transphobic phenomena and experiences and a proposed conceptual framework for transphobia in general, the term 'transandrophobia' is misconstrued as a conceptual framework. we say "we've come up with a term to describe our experiences as transmascs" and people hear "you need to conceptualise all your experiences with transphobia in terms of the oppression of transmascs and centre our experiences in your discussions about your own marginalisation".

the reality is that most people discussing transandrophobia are not denying that transfems experience transphobia or denying that transmisogynistic phenomena happen. objections to the TMA/TME distinction are objections to a conceptual framework that treats all transphobia as just transmisogyny in a trenchcoat, and not a denial that transfems experience transmisogyny or are 'not oppressed' or whatever else.

for the record, i have no beef with transmisogyny either as a term for the intersection of transphobia and misogyny or as a term for shared transfem experiences. my critiques of transfeminst thinking are theoretical, namely:

transmisogyny-as-framework presupposes that the major driving force of all transphobia is a desire to target/punish trans women and that everyone else is caught in the crossfire. i don't think that's adequate as a conceptual framework because transphobia is better understood as a result of a gender-essentialist society punishing all non-normative performance of gender. it also relies on a lot of faulty assumptions about the transphobia that transmascs experience. transphobia experienced by transmascs is treated as a category-typical experience of transphobia (i.e. trans men get the 'just transphobia' version, whilst transfems get the 'transphobia plus' version)... but also transmasc oppression must be framed in terms of 'misdirected (trans)misogyny'. you can't treat trans men as having the most typical, 'basic' experience of transphobia whilst also insisting all transphobia is actually a form of transmisogyny misdirected at other trans people. those two positions are mutually contradictory. if all transphobia is actually about transmisogyny then transfems are getting the default transphobia experience and transmascs/trans nonbinary people/etc are all getting variations of that, not the other way around.

if you want to use transmisogyny as a framework for understanding all of transphobia, you cannot label anyone as exempt from transmisogyny. if transmisogyny is the proposed framework for understanding all transphobic discrimination of any trans person of any gender, then you are saying we all exist in a system of transmisogyny. therefore none of us are exempt from it. and if you're proposing transmisogyny-as-framework for all trans experiences, then all trans people get to weigh in on it, because you're applying it to all of us. i get to disagree with the framework being coercively applied to my experiences and i should be able to do that without being called transmisogynistic, because critiquing a framework you're asking every trans person to submit to is not synonymous with hating on trans women or denying their lived experiences or saying they're not oppressed. you can't insist that transmascs are TME by default whilst also insisting we only ever discuss our experiences as 'misdirected transmisogyny'. and you definitely can't label all transmascs as exempt from transmisogyny whilst simultaneously insisting we use transmisogyny as the conceptual framework within which we understand our oppression. that's trying to have your cake and eat it.

the TMA/TME framework is just reinventing binary gender but with extra steps. especially since in practice determining whether someone is TMA or TME seems to involve an awful lot of focus on people's assigned gender and what genitals they were born with.

a lot of this theorising follows a very radfem pattern of dividing everyone into two gendered categories, labelling one of those categories to Privileged Oppressor Class, and then heavily policing who gets to belong to the Oppressed Victims Class based on their genitals and socialisation. at which point you're just doing TERFism from the other direction. any framework that proposes we can understand gendered experiences in terms of a strict binary is automatically throwing intersex and nonbinary people under the bus. a comprehensive theory of trans experiences must have space for nonbinary identities and intersex experiences otherwise it is incomplete.

i'm making this post in good faith and i'm not denying the impact of transmisogyny on transfems. but i do think theorising around transmisogyny and TMA/TME as a framework have a number of flaws and i'm not going to use those frameworks to talk about my own experiences because they are theoretically inadequate. a robust theory of transphobia and trans experiences must have room for all trans experiences within it, as well as overlapping experiences of gendered oppression such as intersexism, misogyny, butchphobia etc. TMA/TME ain't it.

#transandrophobia #theorising #tma/tme

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the-cosmic-cauldron · 1 month ago

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☹︎𝒫𝒾𝒸𝓀 𝒜 𝒫𝒾𝓁ℯ: 𝒴ℴ𝓊𝓇 𝒮𝒽𝒶𝒹ℴ𝓌 𝒮𝒾𝒹ℯ ☹︎

Welcome to 10 Days, 10 Posts from The Cosmic Cauldron! Over the next ten days, I’ll be sharing a blend of astrology and tarot posts, each designed to spark your curiosity and guide your journey. If you find my content interesting, fascinating, or engaging, be sure to click the follow button for more! Ready to dive deeper into your personal journey? Head to my homepage and book a reading — you won’t regret it.

ᑭIᒪᗴ 1

For pile 1, I see that your shadow side often manifests as emotional manipulation. When you don’t get what you want, you tend to go into your head, overthinking, and find ways to subtly manipulate others to get what you desire. You have a tendency to self-isolate, spending too much time in your head, overthinking situations. You’re not always the best at integrating yourself into the world around you. You quickly retreat, pulling away from others and going into isolation. This behavior is part of the manipulation, too. When you don’t get your way, you ghost, walk away, or avoid confrontation. You make it clear that you’re not going to engage, choosing instead to retreat into yourself.

However, this self-isolation leads to stagnation. You spend too much time in your head, ruminating and trying to manipulate situations, which doesn’t help you grow. You’re not opening yourself up to new opportunities when you withdraw. By staying in this cycle of isolation, overthinking, and emotional manipulation, you prevent yourself from experiencing new things and finding healthier ways to channel your emotions. You shut yourself off from the world and miss out on potential opportunities to explore or shift your mindset. You’re not giving yourself the chance to move forward because you’re trapped in this repetitive cycle.

During these periods of isolation, you may also cut off contact with people, ghosting them and becoming distant. If someone does try to engage with you, you may respond in a snappy, petty, or immature way. You could say something hurtful or fail to resolve an issue, only making things worse by not addressing the problem. Holding on to grudges and not letting go of past issues is another challenge for you. When you feel like you possess something, you struggle to release it, even if it’s no longer serving you. You often hold on to things, even dead weight, out of fear of instability. This attachment can be detrimental, keeping you stuck in unhealthy situations.

You tend to deal with a lot of instability, particularly in your relationships. This might stem from an immature way of thinking or communicating with others, where emotional manipulation and withdrawal lead to hot-and-cold dynamics. Your inability to be genuine and authentic creates instability in your connections. You try to gloss over problems by maintaining a positive outlook, holding on to hope that things will improve without addressing the underlying issues. This leads to gaslighting yourself, believing that your actions won’t have consequences, or that things will magically work out. In reality, holding on to things that no longer serve you keeps you stagnant, and when you do let go, it’s often too quickly, without giving situations the time they need to improve.

The themes of instability in your relationships are clear, and I believe you struggle with emotional intelligence and balancing your own energy with that of others. You may have difficulty understanding your emotions and how they impact your relationships. This imbalance further contributes to the challenges you face in connecting with others in a healthy, sustainable way.

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For this pile, I sense that you experience a lot of emotional overwhelm and struggle with managing your emotions. There’s also a sense of manipulation involved. You come across as someone who can be very much a “my way or the highway” type of person. You easily feel attacked, and you have a lot of pride issues. You take things way too personally and can’t find a balance between allowing someone to express themselves without feeling like you’re being attacked. You take everything to heart, which makes you feel the need to fight and defend yourself. This leads to a lot of clashes with people because you can’t let things just be. You have a hard time accepting that some people will simply be the way they are, and you feel the need to assert your opinion and your will. You know that certain people are not going to agree with you, yet you still engage with them, even if they’re problematic.

You also have a passive-aggressive side. Instead of directly expressing how you feel, you try to play it cool and act like everything is fine. But when you can’t take it anymore, you have emotional outbursts where you say a bunch of things you regret. You sometimes underestimate your ability to handle certain conversations or situations. You think you can handle them, but then they end up blowing up in your face. You are a very sensitive person, and you tend to absorb and internalize what others say emotionally, which leads to overthinking. This overthinking is part of why you can be passive-aggressive—you try to avoid conflict, but your emotions, at times, make you conflict-driven.

At the same time, you have a conflict-avoidant side, where you shut down, isolate yourself, and ghost people. You retreat into your own head, overthinking things while shutting everyone else out. This combination of being conflict-driven and conflict-avoidant makes you unpredictable. People don’t always know what to expect from you. You can be emotionally volatile, with mood swings that make it hard for others to know how to deal with you. You might not have strong boundaries because you struggle with controlling your moods. Some days, you show up as a cool, happy, engaging person, and other days, you’re crabby, distant, and don’t want to be bothered.

This unpredictability can drive people away. The sudden shift in your behavior can be jarring, and some people might find it too much to handle. You also have periods where you completely withdraw from others, not wanting to talk or interact with anyone. These inconsistencies in your behavior make it challenging for others to know how to approach or relate to you.

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For pile three, I feel like you often get stuck in life. There’s a lot of fear holding you back from broadening your horizons. You tend to be very secretive, and this secrecy deceives others, but it also holds you back. Instead of putting yourself out into the world, you hide in the shadows. By doing so, you miss opportunities. Even though you might want to start things, you don’t allow them to grow beyond the initial stage. You don’t give yourself enough time or patience to nurture the seeds, goals, and ideas you have because you quickly lose interest. You become apathetic too fast, and it seems like things no longer matter to you. You often tap out emotionally—getting fully invested one moment, then pulling away and acting distant the next. You tend to either isolate yourself too much or keep things too reserved.

You need to put yourself out into the world more, but you struggle to maintain your energy. You have moments of enthusiasm where you start goals or projects, but that energy fades quickly. As a result, you never reach the maturity needed to complete things, and you withdraw. You remain reserved, acting shy or indifferent, but deep down, you struggle with low confidence. You’re afraid of change, afraid of movement, and afraid of doing something different. You prefer the mundane, the routine, and you don’t know how to break out of it. There’s a fear of something going wrong, and you’re trying to protect yourself from what you perceive as potential upheaval, hurt, or pain. But in trying to protect yourself, you’re only protecting your ego, which means you’re not flourishing in the way you desire.

Your confidence is low, and you don’t believe in yourself enough. You don’t give yourself the stamina or time to endure the process and stages required to achieve your goals. You give up too easily and withdraw quickly. You don’t give yourself the patience to continue, and this keeps you stuck. By keeping yourself behind closed doors and withdrawing, you miss out on opportunities. It often takes dramatic situations to force you to face the truth because you’ve built up so many unresolved issues. You don’t feel confident in how you look, act, or what you do, and that’s holding you back.

You struggle with follow-through, which leads to abandoning things before completing them. This prevents you from reaching a point where you can truly put yourself out there and try new things. Instead, it’s the same monotonous routine, and your passion fizzles out quickly. You don’t have a strong grasp on sustaining things, and maintaining consistency seems to be a difficult aspect of your life. You need to adopt a more positive mindset, as it seems you struggle with confidence and with maintaining progress in your endeavors.

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For Pile 4, I feel like you hold on to the past too much, and that’s the main issue here. You have such an emotional attachment to the past that it’s hard for you to stay in the present moment and remain grounded. Instead, you often drift off into thoughts about past events. While it’s normal to feel nostalgic, you sometimes hold on to past attachments, seeing things through rose-colored glasses. This causes you to become overly emotionally attached, making it difficult to see things clearly.

Another thing I sense about you is that you overexert yourself. You tend to be very self-sacrificial and care about people deeply, but to your own detriment. Your emotional intensity when it comes to giving to others can be overwhelming because you might lack boundaries. You don’t know how to say no, take time for yourself, or stop when you’ve reached your limit. You don’t fully understand your limitations or know enough about yourself to set healthy boundaries, which leads to you taking on too much. You say yes too often and end up overburdened. Like Pile 3, you may start many things, and you have a lot of good ideas and goals, but following through is difficult. There’s a lack of drive to finish what you’ve started, and you struggle with patience and stamina when it comes to completing tasks.

It seems like you’re always going through something—facing conflict or challenges in your life that cause you to burn yourself out. You then have to dig yourself out of difficult situations, repeating this cycle. You might find yourself saying, “Now I’m finally in a good place,” only to burn out again and have to rebuild. This cyclical pattern can keep you stuck.

I also feel like it’s very hard for you to let go of the past and release people from your life, even if they’re toxic or unhealthy for you. It’s difficult for you to accept endings, and you often push your will too hard. Forcing yourself to endure struggles just to get what you want isn’t healthy, yet sometimes you’re willing to put yourself through instability because you believe you can come out of it. Even though you do manage to recover, you still hold on to emotional pain, which can lead to resentment. So, many of you are dealing with a deep well of resentment, which is not healthy. It’s hard for you to move past things and embrace change, even when it’s necessary. You tend to hoard emotions internally, and while you may not show it to others, you’re really going through a lot.

Speaking to others and freeing yourself from your attachment to the past could help you move forward, but letting go of things and dealing with change is challenging for you. This is a shadow aspect of yourself. When you avoid change, you end up stuck in a loop that you can’t escape. You need to take time for yourself, but it’s difficult for you to do so. You focus so much on others and external things that it’s hard for you to turn inward and focus on your true self.

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ashraffamilynew · 4 months ago

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Yamen: A Light of Hope in the Darkness"

Meet Yamen, our beautiful nine-month-old son, born into a world of chaos and conflict. His arrival during this war is a bittersweet reminder of both our struggles and our unwavering hope. Each day, he brings a glimmer of light into our lives, and with every smile, he inspires us to dream of a future that feels almost unattainable.

Yamen doesn’t understand the fear that envelops us or the shadows of uncertainty that loom large. To him, the world is still a place of wonder. He giggles and reaches for me with his tiny hands, each laughing a fragile melody that cuts through the noise of destruction. In his eyes, I see the innocence that we desperately want to protect.

But I often find myself asking: How long can we shield him from the harsh realities of this war? How long can we maintain his innocence in a world that threatens to steal it away? As parents, the weight of these questions is heavy. The thought of him growing up in fear is a pain I can not bear.

This is why I am reaching out to you. We are embarking on a campaign to create a future for Yamen that transcends our own difficult experiences. We believe that with the support of a compassionate community, we can turn our dreams into reality. By contributing, you are not merely donating; you are actively participating in the shaping of his world—a world filled with love, security, and opportunity.

Imagine a life where Yamen can play freely, learn joyfully, and grow without the shadow of conflict hanging over him. Your support can help us build that life for him, ensuring he experiences the joy and potential that every child deserves.

Yamen may be just a baby, but in his laughter lies the power to inspire change. Let us work together to create a brighter future, where his innocence is cherished and nurtured. Join us in this fight for hope and resilience so that one day, when he looks back, he sees a life full of love and possibility—a life untainted by war.

Together, we can make a profound impact. Let’s give Yamen and all children like him a chance to grow up in a world where hope triumphs over despair.

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sejdkvinna · 1 month ago

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beginning deity worship and work

I've seen many beginner pagans ask how to begin deity worship and work over the years, and this is my contribution of advice to anyone confused how to start. I will say that a good chunk of this comes from personal opinions and experience, and if you find that my advice doesn't resonate with you, there's many ways to approach deity work/worship!

Discern the Magical from the Mundane

I can't begin to count how many posts I've seen that ask if seeing a crow means X deity is reaching out, or if a large flame from a candle means Y deity wants to work with them. In my personal experience, I've found that callings are much more rare than online experiences portray them to be. Many things that are attributed to being a "sign" are really just normal and natural parts of the world around us. There's so many mundane reasons why your candle flame might be large, erratic, etc. Crows are incredibly common birds in many regions. Before jumping to say that something is a sign, take a step back to analyze if there could be any mundane explanations for something. The way deity work/worship is portrayed online often makes beginners feel like their connection to a deity is less special if it doesn't come from a calling, but the reality is that the need for a calling is often ego-driven. Before getting into deity work/worship, take some time to recognize when your ego is getting in your way, as well as to understand what is mundane v. magical.

Deity Work v. Worship

Just like a deity relationship that stems from a calling is no more special than a relationship you choose to initiate, working with a deity does not make you more special or chosen than someone who chooses to primarily/entirely worship that deity. The two relationships are different, but one is not better than the other. Before diving into deity work/worship, consider what it is you want from the relationship. Do you want to learn from a deity? Do you feel inspired to honor a deity without a working relationship? What is it that calls you to deity work/worship? Understanding what you want will help you to decide who to work with or worship, as well as how to build that connection.

Pantheons

A pantheon is a collection of gods that belong to a specific culture/people or religion. Just about every culture that exists has a pantheon to go along with it, but some of the more common pantheons among pagans and Wiccans are the Greek, Celtic, and Norse (don't let this restrict you though!). Some pantheons belong to closed cultures, which means that unless you are native to the culture or initiated into it by a spiritual leader, that pantheon is off limits to you.

While you can absolutely work with deities from different pantheons, my advice to beginners is to start by finding a pantheon you personally connect with. Deities don't exist in a vacuum - they are deeply tied to their cosmology. Starting with one pantheon can help you narrow down which deity you would like to start honoring or working with, as well as prevent you from stretching yourself thin as you research the context/mythology that deities exist within. Remember, you can always branch out in the future!

Deities

Once you have an idea of which pantheon you want to work with, start researching various deities within that pantheon. See if any names stick out to you or if certain mythological stories connect with you. If a deity wants to work with you, chances are that they will send signs that are persistent and impossible to ignore. If a deity wants to work with you, you'll know from signs they send you and a feeling of being drawn to them that's difficult to explain. Please remember though, you can absolutely initiate contact! Also, I warn against picking a deity because of what they are associated with (for example, just because Hekate is the goddess of witches doesn't necessarily mean you need to work with her to be a strong witch).

In addition, you can try doing guided (or unguided) meditations to send a call into the universe and see which deity will respond to your call. Meditation is also a great way to contact and have clear communication with deities, so it wouldn't be a bad idea to learn how to meditate to reach out to deities now. If you can astral project, you can also use this to connect to a deity similarly to the way someone would in meditation.

Once you have found a deity that calls out to you that you are interested in working with, research as much as you can about them! Learn about their mythology, what is associated with/ruled by them, appropriate offerings, devotional acts, epithets, etc. Reflect based on this information whether or not the deity is one that you actually want to establish a relationship with, as you should feel excited or generally positive going into this (and not guilty or any other negative emotion). The more you know about this deity, the more effective it will be working with them.

Physical Offerings

Now that you have an idea of what deity you want to work with, it is time to formally establish contact with that deity. Of course, the best way to start off a relationship on the right foot is with a gift. If you are able to set up an altar to put offerings on, that is ideal, but you can also leave offerings outside, eat/drink them yourself, leave them in an untouched area, etc. Be sure that however you choose to dispose of or give the offering is environmentally friendly. If for whatever reason you are unable to give a physical offering, you can also use prayers and devotional acts as an offering.

First off, there is no universal offering or way to give an offering. It all depends on the deity. Research your deity of choice, and find out what food and drink are associated with them (other offerings can be flowers, crystals, etc.). Different traditions may require different ways to give offerings (such as some require you to not waste food and eat it after a bit, while food offerings for some chthonic deities should be left to rot). Long story short, do your research! Once you have your offering, simply say something simple (or elaborate if that's your thing) to communicate your intent to the deity. Then, present it however is appropriate.

Non-Physical Offerings

Praying (if you are comfortable with it) is a great way to establish regular connection and offerings with a deity. My suggestion is to either find or create a daily prayer (it does not need to be super long or complex) for your deity. I've found that reciting something daily will help you build a habit of connecting to the deity you work with/honor, as I need some structure and routine. You could also get creative and use prayer beads, or get more personal by talking to your deity about your day, fears, hopes and dreams, etc.

Similarly to offerings, devotional acts are specific to each deity, so there are very few universal devotional acts. Essentially, they are actions you can do in order to honor your deity of choice. Research your deity of choice to come up with different devotional acts you can do (for example, to honor Aphrodite, you could focus on loving yourself and others). Like I mentioned earlier, devotional acts can also be offered to a deity the same way as an offering.

Working Relationship

Now that the relationship has been formally established for a bit, this is a good time to establish it as a working relationship (just as with any relationship, there is a give and take system). Deities are incredibly helpful when it comes to giving advice, guidance, and even information, and when you have been polite and giving gifts for a while, they become much more willing to give you guidance and information. All that's left is figuring out how to communicate with a deity, and fortunately there is a variety of ways to do so.

If you have the tools, divination is one way to do so. Divination is also great for those who struggle to communicate with the spirit world and may have more trouble with other methods of communication. For more black and white answers, I recommend using a pendulum. However, tarot cards, runes, oracle cards, etc. can be used for the deity to communicate through to give you advice as well. If you scry, you may not get the most direct or clear answers, but that's another way to receive messages.

Meditation, lucid dreams, evocative, and astral projection can be used for a more direct line of communication where you can actually have a conversation with a deity. Performing any of these methods could have their own posts, so I will not be going into much detail, but I will say that essentially you just call and ask the deity to appear to you. With meditations especially (although you may find some for astral projection), you can find a guided meditation to communicate with a deity.

While working with deities in rituals is varied and often depends on what the ritual is, deities can be invoked during a ritual to help carry out your intent. However, it is important to note that it is unwise (and dare I say rude) to invoke a deity you have not previously worked with simply because of their associations. Deities are not ingredients, so if you are going to call upon one for assistance during a ritual, please make sure it's a deity you already have an established relationship with.

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inside-black-moon · 1 month ago

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I can't...Get out your handkerchiefs...

This is me. 695 days ago I was like this - a small scared girl hiding inside a huge necramech. Now I have become like a necramech myself and I do not hide, but go straight ahead. At that time, I tried to join some clan. I strove for socialization, movement, the flow of cyber-ninja energy. It was all useless. Even here I felt separated from everyone. My condition was aggravated by the terrible events in my real life, which maximally increased the feeling of isolation.

But the world of warframe absorbed me so much that I didn't need help. I understood and understand that this is my special path both in the game and in understanding myself. Isolation helped me open my eyes to many things. And as a reward, I received something priceless.

He and She. I am inclined to deep self-analysis - it helps me survive in society. It turned out thanks to nature that I have a very non-standard perception of the world literally at the cellular level. Of course, with experience and age I have learned many social techniques, but some things remain behind the scenes. But this manifests itself in creativity and photography, including. Using a lot of techniques from ordinary coloristics to physiognomy, I reflect my worldview and attitude, emotions. This is, in fact, the only language of communication that I know perfectly. And this is a great way to "say" something to the audience.

Isolation leads to self-flagellation and searching for flaws in yourself. It took me a long time to get out of this very dangerous borderline state. And yes, self-analysis helped me with this and...Umbra. At some point, I started creating photo comics. There was a lot of text and these were even, rather, illustrated stories. The uncomplaining faithful Umbra was my partner and a kind of assistant in the game for creating illustrations. Self-analysis turned into stories, screenshots - into illustrations. And all this helped me more than once to cope with depression and inner demons. Do I feel gratitude to the character who can technically only repeat animations in the game? Yes, definitely. Without him, there would be no illustrations, without him, there would be no stories. Without him, I would not have gotten out of hell. I needed a strong hand, support, to survive. When you don't understand what depression can lead to and you take it lightly, it can be a fatal mistake. I was on the edge. One step away from very bad things. And he pulled me out.

I understand perfectly well that I pulled myself out, but through the work of my brain, mind, consciousness and subconscious. And Umbra was only an interlocutor. The silent one. But sometimes there are very dangerous situations when, in order to save your own life and mind, you need to fall out of reality and come back. And when you fall out of reality, then yes, the game characters become alive in a sense. I'm not talking about tangibility. But about their perception, the perception of the contribution of their existence to your real life. When you return to reality, the connection remains. Admiration and respect. Trepidation... I don't know how to describe these emotions. This is something special. Truly intimate, deep and valuable. Despite the fact that these are mind games.

And Arthur. How much... no, that's not the right word... I didn't know that the appearance of a talking character with whom you can interact would kick in a tightly sealed door deep in my subconscious. A lot came out, both things I would like to remember and things I would like to bury. Where are developers? I need to kiss their minds urgently. This won't make it to prime time, but if suddenly one of the developers actually sees this, then hear me - you have no idea what your game does to people. Your brainchild touches other people's minds and changes their lives. From me - thank you. You saved my life. More than once.

I kept this inside for too long.

#warframe #warframe captura #tennocreate #fashionframe #warframe 1999 #warframe drifter #warframe excalibur #warframe umbra #warframe arthur #let's all hug and think how good it is that we have warframe #🖤

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denamelesshuman · 10 months ago

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I cackled everytime I see JJK content creators with 'Proship DNI' in their bio and those yapping how yucky and degrading it is for many of allxyuji ships (when they are literally fictional characters that you could tweak however you want) but then seeing them making contents from weakly jjk leaks, supporting leaks, tagging their contents based on leaks publicly when those acts are legitimately illegal and literally threaten and are harmful to the livelihood of many real people behind jjk's production...can't help but think how fucking silly they are like gurl your morals are backwards at best, thinking they are better and thus okay being racist and insulting to Japanese creators who contributed to make allxyuji swept most of the 20 popular jjk ships? They can't even stop and think why Japanese artists are so enraged w/ the act of leaking chapter and the act of supporting leaks in whichever form (including making fanarts, memes, posts, tweets based on leaks), before it is officially released that made those available everywhere due to these dumb content creators who can't even hold back few more days to not publicly support leaks...Bcs it is literally illegal and highly disrespectful to Gege and all those working in JJK and most of all, stealing actual profits that are supposed to go to them.

Still wanna act all high and mighty when you're supporting in real crime? Oh. You think if those ppl working on Weekly Jump magz got fired then it's none of your business bcs you're just a fucking leaks reader? You just happen to make contents abt it before official release bcs everyone else also does it. Could care less abt the fact that it's illegal bcs you dunno those real people working for JJK. But you 'care' more abt your fictional blorbos being shipped with another fictional character in what would be unhealthy according to real life standards?

At least im not a hypocrite and have actual functioning brain and morals that can separate reality and fiction and understand which thing is actually harmful and wrong IRL and which isn't. Get your brain to actually work first before running your mouth and preach about what's wrong and right in fiction.

The idea of proship doesn't even exist in Japan because they are the people who actually know how to mind their own business and not judging people based on preferences for fictional works...and not downright being rude to strangers online...unlike some people from the other side of the world, obviously.

#besides who needs contents from those anyway like you dont make contents that I like and #and the abundance of allxyuji contents meant we'll never be short of the #ofc this is abt those whiny biches thinking they are a better human being just bcs they dont ship #goyuu #sukuita #choita #nanaita #hiita #proship #anti proshitter #don't be these typical 'westerners'#but somehow it's always mostly the westerners that act like this

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thegambitgazette · 11 months ago

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Fear: Using Stoicism to Shape Characters

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Introduction

Like many people, I suffer from severe panic and anxiety attacks. My heart races at what feels like a thousand beats per minute, I get a cold sweat, and my thoughts do not have a filter. The latter of which, I find the most dangerous and disturbing, especially when said attacks get triggered by something so small or nothing at all.

A lot of the time, they boil down to not feeling safe. I feel like I’m vulnerable, that the worst things that happened to me will happen again tenfold, or I’ve become the worst person in existence. Fear, as a lot of us know, can have us assume the worst.

I’m still working on managing my fear, if it can be managed at all, but a lot of what I’ve been practicing is essentially Stoicism. Epictetus, a Greek Stoic philosopher, often highlighted that it is not events themselves that disturb people, but rather their judgments about those events. One famous quote attributed to Epictetus that reflects this idea is: “People are not disturbed by things, but by the view they take of them.”

This sentiment suggests that fear and other negative emotions stem not from objective reality but from our interpretations and perceptions of reality.

I thought, “What a wonderful way to get to know our characters!” Not only do we have to have a grasp on the world around them, we have to understand the extent of how they perceive said reality and how it leads to their own fears as well as their ambitions, passions, hate, love, etc.

Amor Fati

One of my favorite phrases is “amor fati.” It’s what helped me most in navigating my own fears and, as a result, writing some ways in which my characters handle theirs.

The idea of “amor fati” is closely associated with philosophers like Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius, even though they didn't use those exact words. However, it was Nietzsche who made it a key part of his philosophy. He believed that true greatness comes from embracing fate and wanting nothing to change, not in the past, present, or future. In simple terms, it means loving and accepting everything that happens, rather than just enduring it.

When considering the relationship between “amor fati” and fear, several key points emerge:

Acceptance of the Uncontrollable: Fear often arises from the unknown or from circumstances beyond our control. “Amor fati” encourages individuals to relinquish their resistance to such uncertainties and to accept that life is inherently unpredictable. By embracing fate, individuals can find solace in the realization that some things are simply beyond their power to change or influence.

Facing Adversity with Resilience: Rather than viewing challenges as threats to be avoided or overcome, individuals can approach them with a sense of equanimity and resilience. Instead of succumbing to fear or anxiety in the face of challenges, one can choose to see them as opportunities for growth and self-discovery. By embracing adversity as an integral part of life’s journey, individuals can cultivate the strength and fortitude necessary to navigate difficult times with grace and composure.

Gratitude for All Experiences: Fear often stems from a sense of insecurity or dissatisfaction with one’s circumstances. “Amor fati” cultivates gratitude for all experiences, both positive and negative, recognizing that each contributes to the richness and depth of life. By embracing fate with gratitude and appreciation, individuals can mitigate the fear of the unknown and find peace and contentment in the present moment.

This idea is what helps form a “baseline” for my way of thinking and perceiving fear, which is what many people, fictional characters included, tend to mix up.

You don’t need to adopt the same mantra, of course, but I believe that having this Ground 0 in your own personal philosophy will add further depth and characterization in writing. It provides a deeper perspective on why your characters think the same or why they may deviate.

Distinction Between Events and Perceptions

Let’s go back to what Epictetus said: “People are not disturbed by things, but by the view they take of them.” Stoicism teaches that events themselves are neutral; it is our interpretation of those events that shapes our emotional responses. This concept is often referred to as “cognitive appraisal” or “judgment” in Stoic philosophy.

In practical terms, this means that two individuals may encounter the same external circumstance, yet react to it in vastly different ways based on their subjective interpretations. For example, consider a person who loses their job unexpectedly. While one individual may perceive this event as a devastating blow to their self-worth and security, another may view it as an opportunity for growth and new possibilities. The event itself—the loss of a job—remains the same, but the emotional response varies depending on the individual's perception of the situation.

Epictetus’s insight invites us to reflect on the role of our perceptions in shaping our emotional experiences. It suggests that our judgments, beliefs, and attitudes about the events we encounter play a crucial role in determining how we feel and behave in response to those events. By recognizing this distinction between events and perceptions, individuals can gain greater agency over their emotional lives.

Moreover, understanding this distinction empowers individuals to practice what Epictetus called the “dichotomy of control”—the Stoic principle of focusing only on what is within our power to control, namely our thoughts, attitudes, and responses, rather than becoming consumed by external circumstances beyond our control. By directing our attention inward and cultivating a mindset of resilience and rationality, we can navigate life's challenges with greater equanimity and inner peace.

Applying this to character development, particularly in relation to crafting a character’s fears, can add depth and complexity to the character.

Understanding the Character’s Perception of Fearful Events:

Explore how the character interprets and perceives the events or situations that evoke fear. What underlying beliefs, past experiences, or personal values shape their perception of these events?

Consider whether the character’s fear is rooted in the objective reality of the situation or in their subjective interpretation of it. For example, is their fear based on genuine physical danger, or is it driven by irrational beliefs or past traumas?

Revealing Character Traits and Beliefs:

A character’s response to fear can provide insight into their personality, values, and beliefs. For instance, do they confront their fears head-on with courage and resilience, or do they succumb to anxiety and avoidance?

Consider how the character’s fear reflects broader themes or conflicts in the story. For example, does their fear stem from a desire for control, a fear of vulnerability, or a struggle with existential questions?

External Manifestations of Fear:

Consider how the character’s perception of fear manifests in their actions, behaviors, and interactions with others. Do they exhibit outward signs of fear, such as trembling or avoidance, or do they mask their fears behind a facade of bravado?

Pay attention to how the character’s response to fear influences their relationships with other characters. For example, do they push others away in an attempt to protect themselves, or do they seek support and connection during times of fear and uncertainty?

Symbolism and Subtext:

Use the character’s fears as a vehicle for exploring deeper themes and subtext within the story. What do their fears symbolize in terms of larger narrative themes or character arcs?

Consider how the character’s perception of fear parallels or contrasts with other characters in the story, providing opportunities for reflection and exploration of different perspectives.

“Personal Truths” Are Not Necessarily Lawful

No matter how much a character is afraid of something, there is a line to be drawn on how valid that fear is when justifying a character’s actions and self-proclaimed motives. A person can say that they are afraid of someone else and that they are acting to protect others, but does that truly evade them from the law? In other words, a Villain can be completely convinced that what they are doing is noble and right, or that it stems from their own trauma, but, at the end of the day, they’re a murderous liar.

For example, in George Orwell's allegorical novel Animal Farm, Napoleon is a Berkshire boar who emerges as one of the leaders of the animal revolution against the human farmer, Mr. Jones. Initially, Napoleon is portrayed as a strategic thinker and persuasive speaker, working alongside Snowball, another pig, to rally the other animals and establish the principles of Animalism, which advocate for equality and freedom from human oppression.

As the story progresses, Napoleon’s character undergoes a transformation fueled by his ambitions for power and control.

Napoleon’s fear of losing control over the farm drives many of his actions. He becomes increasingly paranoid about potential threats to his authority, particularly from Snowball, whom he views as a rival. This fear prompts him to manipulate and eliminate anyone who opposes him, including orchestrating the expulsion of Snowball from the farm and later falsely accusing him of being a traitor.

He also utilizes propaganda and manipulation to maintain his grip on power. He gradually assumes control over the farm’s decision-making processes, consolidating power in his own hands and using fear tactics to suppress dissent among the other animals. For example, he employs the threat of the mysterious “Jones” returning to instill fear and obedience among the animals.

Napoleon’s lust for power leads him to betray the principles of Animalism that he once espoused. He progressively becomes more authoritarian and exploitative, engaging in corrupt practices such as trading with humans and altering the Seven Commandments to justify his actions. Despite initially advocating for equality, Napoleon begins to live a life of luxury while the other animals toil and suffer.

As his regime becomes more entrenched, he resorts to violence and oppression to maintain control. He establishes a reign of terror, using his loyal enforcers, the ferocious dogs he raised since they were puppies, to suppress dissent and punish any animal perceived as disloyal. Under his rule, the farm descends into a state of fear and tyranny, with Napoleon ruling with an iron fist.

Napoleon’s character serves as a symbol of totalitarianism and the corrupting influence of power. His transformation from a revolutionary leader to a despotic dictator mirrors the rise of real-life totalitarian rulers who exploit fear and propaganda to consolidate power and suppress dissent. There is not one moment of self-reflection, of him questioning that, perhaps, his fears are unfounded or his “personal truths” are not true at all.

Playing With Reality

Now, how can you utilize fear in order to create a character with as much depth and reflection (or lack thereof) like Napoleon?

Exaggerating a character’s fear involves manipulating elements of reality within the narrative to heighten the character’s sense of paranoia, insecurity, and authoritarianism.

Distorted Perceptions: Employ literary devices such as unreliable narration or distorted perspectives to amplify the character’s fears. By presenting events through the lens of the character’s paranoia, the narrative can create a sense of heightened tension and uncertainty. For example, descriptions of seemingly innocuous occurrences may be exaggerated or imbued with sinister undertones to reflect the character’s heightened state of fear.

Symbolism and Imagery: Symbolic imagery can be used to represent the character’s fears in a heightened and exaggerated manner. For instance, recurring symbols of oppression, surveillance, or impending doom can serve as visual metaphors for the character’s anxieties and insecurities. These symbols can be woven throughout the narrative to reinforce the character’s sense of paranoia and isolation.

Surreal Elements: Introducing surreal or fantastical elements into the narrative can create a sense of disorientation and unease, effectively amplifying the character's fear. By blurring the boundaries between reality and fantasy, the author can evoke a sense of psychological instability and existential dread. Surreal imagery, dream sequences, or hallucinatory experiences can all contribute to the character’s sense of dislocation and terror.

Manipulation of Time and Space: Playing with the conventions of time and space can further exaggerate the character’s fear and disorientation. Flashbacks, flash-forwards, or nonlinear storytelling techniques can create a sense of temporal dislocation, mirroring the character’s fractured mental state. Similarly, disorienting shifts in perspective or setting can contribute to the character's sense of being trapped or pursued by unseen forces.

Atmospheric Detailing: Careful attention to atmospheric detail can help to create a sense of oppressive dread and foreboding. Descriptions of the environment—such as gloomy weather, claustrophobic settings, or unsettling ambient sounds—can evoke a palpable sense of unease, intensifying the character's fear and paranoia.

Character Interaction and Dialogue: Dialogue and interaction with other characters can be used to reinforce the character’s fears and insecurities. Conversations may be laced with veiled threats, double entendres, or gaslighting tactics, leaving the character uncertain of whom to trust. Manipulative or menacing exchanges can heighten the character's sense of isolation and vulnerability.

Did anyone else get a little uneasy imagining all of that? I’d go rather mad if I had all of that happening to me, too. Now, what about the good guys? They are afraid of things, too, right?

Of course they are, and you can utilize the above methods for your heroes, as well! There might just be a little bit of extra work involved in ensuring that they don’t spiral into the villain role.

Establish Strong Moral Compass: From the outset, establish the hero’s core values and moral compass. Make it clear what principles guide their actions and decisions. This foundation will serve as a guiding light, helping to anchor the character and prevent them from straying into villainous territory.

Empathy and Compassion: Ensure that the hero retains their empathy and compassion towards others, even in the face of fear and adversity. By prioritizing the well-being of others and demonstrating empathy towards those in need, the hero reaffirms their commitment to noble ideals and reinforces their heroic identity.

Positive Support Systems: Surround the hero with positive support systems, including allies, mentors, and friends who can offer guidance, encouragement, and moral support. These relationships serve as anchors, providing the hero with strength and stability during moments of doubt and fear.

Consequences of Actions: Highlight the consequences of the hero’s actions and choices, emphasizing the impact they have on others and the world around them. By holding the hero accountable for their decisions and their effects, the narrative reinforces the importance of ethical behavior and reinforces their heroic identity.

Redemption and Forgiveness: If the hero does succumb to fear or makes mistakes along the way, provide opportunities for redemption and forgiveness. Allow the hero to acknowledge their faults, learn from their experiences, and strive to make amends. This narrative arc reinforces the hero’s humanity and resilience, emphasizing the possibility of growth and redemption.

Thematic Resonance: Ensure that the hero’s journey is thematically consistent and resonant, emphasizing themes of hope, courage, and resilience. By grounding the narrative in these overarching themes, the hero’s actions remain aligned with their fundamental nature, reinforcing their heroic identity and preventing them from veering into villainous territory.

Conclusion

Fear is a powerful and universal human experience that can shape both individuals and characters in profound ways. Drawing upon Stoic philosophy, particularly the concepts of “amor fati” and the distinction between events and perceptions, can provide valuable insights into understanding and managing fear. By exploring how characters perceive and respond to fear, writers can create nuanced and compelling portrayals that add depth and complexity to their stories.

“Amor fati,” or love of fate, encourages individuals to embrace and accept all aspects of their lives, including the uncertainties and challenges that provoke fear. By adopting an attitude of gratitude and acceptance towards fate, characters can navigate fear with resilience and courage, transforming adversity into opportunities for growth and self-discovery.

Furthermore, understanding the distinction between events and perceptions allows writers to delve into the subjective nature of fear, exploring how characters’ interpretations and judgments shape their emotional experiences. By depicting characters’ fears as rooted in their perceptions of reality, writers can add layers of complexity to their motivations and behaviors, enhancing the depth and authenticity of their characterization.

While fear can drive characters to make choices that lead them down dark paths, it is ultimately their moral compass, empathy, and support systems that determine whether they remain heroes or succumb to villainy. By emphasizing themes of redemption, forgiveness, and growth, writers can ensure that even in the face of fear, their characters' journeys ultimately lead to strength, resilience, and self-discovery.

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🌙Astrology Weather🫧

🪴Mercury in Virgo -good communication, much more stable and serious. There’s an emphasis on detail and effectiveness, as well as efficiency, cleanliness, and streamlining. You will start to delve more into things that are practical and good for you. Dealing with details is natural and comfortable now. Maybe you can become more critical of others or things. And you become more analytical about what you really want.

🛁Mars in Virgo-wants you to take control of your day-to-day expenses. This transit could push you to learn more about saving, as you attend to your spending habits. Mars will remind you of your passions and desires. This is also good for getting more organized or starting a routine. Virgo is a sign about learning patience, and Mars wants us to work hard to achieve success. You can start doing healthier things or start taking care of your body more.

🪻Neptune in pisces retrograde- pushing you deeper into the waters of your subconscious. This meditative five-month cycle can be a profound blessing. It can open a window to deal with core wounds and addictions (from liquor to love to limiting beliefs). Meanwhile, it can let you tap into buried realms of creativity. Neptune retrograde is a great time to tend to unfinished creative projects.

🌊Saturn in pisces retrograde- Saturn is structured while Pisces flows freely. Listen to your intuition, but rely on empirical data too. State your boundaries up front and ask people about theirs. Take a project management workshop to learn how to turn your dreams into reality. Explore your spirituality. Delve deep into an esoteric subject like dream interpretation or tarot. Reflect on how you share yourself with the world around you.

⭐️Pluto in Capricorn retrograde- Looking toward the past will play an important role in understanding how the future can be improved upon. If you start to notice a pattern that’s contributing to stress, tension, or discomfort, now would be a good time to finally address those issues so that you may overcome them. Just try not to pressure others into seeing things as you do, remembering that you can only control your own thoughts and actions. Pluto is the planet of transformation and rebirth. It helps you regain the strength you have lost and become strong again and even better than you were. Capricorn is a sign that is stable and many times brings lessons and things related to karmic relationships. So that during this time you can get to know relationships and things related to them better and finish everything you started and leave behind everything that confused you. Capricorns will be able to breathe a sigh of relief.

🩷August 1st is the full moon in Aquarius- this moon is also associated with Leo. It's time to reach full expression. The full moon is the most powerful time of the entire moon cycle. Enjoy the full expression of life. Be fully engaged. Let the light of the moon energize you. Enjoy the life you are creating. Celebrate. This is a powerfully healing time. Send healing blessings to others. The full moon in Aquarius allows you to bring your blossoming self-expression to full flower. Inspire feelings of joy within yourself. Leo teaches us about our individuality, while the opposite sign, Aquarius, shows us how we can come together in community. The full moon is good for letting go of everything that doesn't serve you and limits you, burdens you and to make room for new things. Play, sing, dance, draw. Celebrate your accomplishments. Share what you've discovered about yourself. Light a candle & cleanse your crystals in the light of the moon. Bathe in the moonlight. Allow the healing light of the moon to nurture and invigorate you. Meditate on your affirmations.

-Rebekah🐚⭐️🫧

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I'm convinced anyone who honest-to-god rages at that post is just someone who feels very impotent and useless off the computer, so they're hardcore compensating by trying to look and feel like they're doing as much "activism" as possible online. Either that, or they have zero understanding of how basic human psychology works and in turn, they don't realize that if people didn't have spaces where they didn't need to constantly be on guard about getting slapped with activism onuses, everyone would burn out. And be useless even if they were able, occasionally, to dive into that stuff before. Not to mention, everyone has a limit. Someone dealing with depression, a death in the family, MS, and the stress of a move has enough shit on their plate and they don't owe anyone an explanation re: "why they don't reblog that post, otherwise it means they're contributing to genocide". Hell, nobody owes anyone an explanation because Brenda, being stressed and pissy and raising your blood pressure about something does not mean you can actually help anyone, and also, half those mutual aid posts are scams.

I know a lot of people were tripped up (apparently) by how I worded it, which in hindsight was probably my fault because I did write it while I was pretty pissed off myself.

But yes, the general amount of people who read it and still insist on either bending over ass backwards trying to nitpick every single possible nuance or immediately launch into accusations and flag waving is just... Disappointing, really.

The whole world is never going to agree on everything, but it is actually very sad to see just how many people have been sucked into the cycle of forced activism, guilt manipulation, setting themselves on fire to keep others warm, ect.

I do hope in the future they allow themselves to let go a little and understand that mentally and physically we are simply not capable of being 'on' every single second of every single day. It helps nobody, and actually, a lot of today's activism is performative and signalling rather than actually effective or influential.

Its people loading up videos of candles on their phones instead of actually lighting real ones.

The unfortunate reality is that a lot of the online "activism" we see isn't.... Actually activism. Its not actually doing anything. There's no outcome from it. Spamming 'FREE PALESTINE' under cat videos and celebrity photos from their holidays doesn't actually accomplish anything. Its just making you feel like you've done something.

Especially activism on a global, actually at war scale like Gaza. It doesn't help anyone. People aren't being freed from hostage camps because user dontlookawayfromwar spammed a tagline under a baking video with an audience of 400 and called the content creator a cunt for not mentioning Gaza once while telling people how to bake scones.

Its likely an unpopular opinion; but modern internet culture has actually ruined activism, compassion and how we understand influence and real change. We are so out of touch with what is actually helpful and what is just virtue signalling and running on a hamster wheel of performative activism. The internet is a communication tool. You can't build a wall with a spoon and you can't stop a war with Tumblr posts telling people they're awful for having family dinners that don't revolve around dead bodies and human greed.

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villainsandvictimsalliance · 11 months ago

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A quick analysis of AFO's origin, the world frame of bnha and the core themes of the story :

From reading other people's metas and reading the leaks when they came out, my only solid take about it is that you cannot talk about bnha and the core theme of the perpetuation of violence without understanding how the Hero Society and the hero vs villain culture came to be.

That's what AFO origin is for.

Let's see if I can explain it:

In stories where a group of people suddenly gains powers, you'll always see that authors worry to portray how a change like that would affect the world at the moment. What does it mean that part of the global population now has access to something that others don't? Does that make them "better humans"? Are they superior to the rest and therefore should control them? Are they a danger to society? Should they be repressed or eliminated?

The thing is that powers can be viewed as a metaphor to real life situations we face. People with disabilities deal with the whole stupid idea that they are less than the rest of humanity all the time. You have sexism and racism and a bunch of other problems that at heart are about how to deal with different existences. Should people with certain privileges rule the world? Etc etc etc.

For a second, think of having superpowers as having a ton of money. Those with more money can help others or totally ruin their lives, right? In our world, people with money are directly involved in how justice works. They can corrupt the system or make it work, you know how it is. Yet, people with money are only people. We are all just that. Humans. No matter the amount of privileges, you can't escape your own humanity.

The way a person looks, the amount of money they own, where they are from, how they identify as, none of that makes a person more or less human. Similarly, having powers or the nature of said powers... It doesn't make a person less of a person, you know?

When you apply that logic to superpowers, you get what MHA is trying to say.

AFO lived in these specific conditions that were a result of the violence of his time. He would have ended up bitter anyway, because since he was born he was marked as a threat. When you reject someone like that, when you reject their humanity and you make an enemy out of there, you're not asking for a nice ending. If you teach them that they have to fight for the right to exist, you are asking for a war. It's like that in our world, it's like that in bnha.

What I'm trying to say is that superpowers are just an added variable in the complex equation of human coexistence.

The moment superpowers start to appear, society has to adapt fast. People that are also weapons don't mix well with the world's problems, after all. If you want to prevent mass killings, you need to set a system that rules the allowed behaviors and balances out the board. It's a relief that humanity is both capable of great horrors and wonders, so to every criminal that's set to use their powers for evil, you'll get an individual that wants to use their powers to stop them.

That's how vigilantes were born.

Then comes the legalization of powers and the individuals who use it to protect the system. That is how you get villains (people outside the law) and heroes (people following the law).

Violà. You have the same set of problems with a new feature: quirks.

How does this connect to AFO, you ask?

AFO's origin explains the complexity of the bnha universe, comparing it to our own. It also shows that there is always a context, as in situational factors that contribute to a person being the way that person is.

That doesn't excuse who AFO became, tho. The general rule dictates that we are responsible for our choices and actions in the face of the reality we were presented with. Maybe not while we are kids, because we don't have the maturity to make those choices. However, the moment we become adults, we cannot blame our choices anymore in the world around us. If you have the frame of mind to stop hurting people and you don't, that is on you. You chose to perpetuate the violence.

Of course, simplifications don't do any good and bnha makes that clear too.

A tale of heroes that are always good and villains that are always bad is just that, fiction. When the bnha society started believing that said fiction was their reality, that's when the real struggle of bnha started. Villains and heroes stopped being perceived as such. The dehumanization went both ways. The heroes became untouchable gods and the villains unforgivable demons. The civilians all excused their apathy and lack of action by saying they couldn't do anything in such a world.

People ran away from their responsibility by putting all the weight on the heroes shoulders and ignoring whatever felt uncomfortable or mildly disturbing.

See how quickly we were able to analyze bnha?

That's what I meant when I said at the start that AFO's backstory is crucial to the story frame of the manga. If AFO had been a villain just because, then you'd have a story of evil without reason that would validate the idea of extreme moralities of black and white. Since that's not the case, we got more depth in general.

It all connects to the message Horikoshi is trying to communicate. If you compare bnha to other shonens, you'll get the feeling that they all have something to say about that violence, about the way the world is structured and how people move around it.

It's a basic of storytelling, sure. It's just that now you have the knowledge to properly study bnha, or something like that.

At some point I'll have to reread the manga and pay attention to AFO's origin... That's everything for now, tho. Hope you enjoyed it whdhjsbdjd

#bnha #mha #my hero academia #boku no hero academia #shan's bnha opinions #shan's mha opinions #bnha spoilers #mha spoilers #afo #all for one

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gacha-incels · 4 months ago

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“Isekai Pongongnam”, a work that falls short of standards and a red pen correction for Naver

published Oct 17 2024

this article is originally in Korean and has been mtl and edited into English here. it’s not going to be 1:1 but the basic info should be there, if you see any discrepancies though lmk and I’ll edit it asap. thanks everyone for your continued help and understanding.

This article is not a critique of the controversial webtoon Isekai Pongpongnam. Critique, even when highly critical, involves reading between the lines to understand the context. Such a process is unnecessary—more accurately, impossible—when it comes to Isekai Pongpongnam. The webtoon recently passed the first round of Naver Webtoon’s 2024 Grand Contest and is now available on “Best Challenge.” As the title suggests, it actively utilizes the concepts of the “dishwashing theory” and “Pongpongnam,” which were popular around three years ago. Here’s the premise: Park Dong-soo, a 39-year-old man who has devoted himself to his family as a husband and father for 10 years, discovers his wife's affair and prepares for a divorce. Despite having grounds for divorce, he is devastated to learn that, after 10 years of marriage, they must split their assets 50/50. During the custody dispute, his wife self-harms and falsely accuses him of domestic violence, leading to his arrest. Overwhelmed with regret, Park attempts suicide and is transported to a parallel world.

So, what is there to critique about this story? The issue isn’t with the repetitive narrative patterns or the convenient use of a parallel world, like in other generic fantasy stories. The webtoon has been criticized for its misogynistic elements, with a boycott campaign against Naver Webtoon gaining traction on social media, especially on Twitter (now X). While I fully agree with this criticism, it’s not the only issue. The creator of Isekai Pongpongnam hasn’t actually done anything of substance. He hasn’t portrayed any meaningful representation, structured a coherent narrative, or even developed any characters.

The webtoon merely cobbles together and regurgitates misogynistic internet memes, including the term “Pongpongnam,” without any coherent structure. For example, in episode 2, a character from the parallel world reacts to Park's story, exclaiming, “A person who didn’t contribute to the assets just because they were married for a few years gets to take more than half? And the law even protects the cheater? That’s ridiculous! There’s no way a world without a proper system like that exists! If it did, it would’ve collapsed by now!” This line, which some have praised as a “refreshing statement” on Namu Wiki, merely echoes the grievances often found on male-dominated online communities. The setting of Dongtan as Park's hometown, often referred to as “Pongpong City” in discussions about “Pongpongnam,” the lawyer’s line about how “the law favors women too much,” and Park’s monologue about the police taking his wife’s consistent (but false) statements about domestic violence seriously—all these elements are simply recycled memes about male discrimination that have circulated online for years.

In reality, testimony is significant in legal cases, and the credibility of statements is empirically proven through consistency and non-contradiction. However, after the controversial 2018 conviction in the “Gomtang Restaurant” sexual harassment case, the concept of “consistency in statements” was derided as a tool that could turn innocence into guilt, forming a kind of “alternative fact” that continues to circulate in these communities. As of now, three episodes have been released, listing various events, but the creator of Isekai Pongpongnam hasn’t expressed any original ideas or insights. If there’s an actual author behind this webtoon, it isn’t the person named “Pongpong” (the actual pseudonym), but rather the communities like DC Inside, Ilbe, or Femco.

Therefore, Isekai Pongpongnam is not something that can be critiqued as a proper webtoon submission. Instead, it would be more appropriate to mark it up with a red pen. First, the title itself deserves a red line. In response to the controversy over misogyny, the creator claimed, “I do not incite hatred. This story was created based on advice from a divorce lawyer and is based on real events.” If that’s the case, it’s close to an admission that the title was chosen without much thought. While it’s certainly possible that there are real-life cases like Park Dong-soo’s, using such a specific term in the title positions the story within a context of misogyny.

The so-called “dishwashing theory,” which compares a marriage between a respectable man with a stable job and a woman with a promiscuous past to doing the dishes, isn’t an inductive theory but rather a baseless assertion aimed at justifying hatred toward women by creating an imaginary strawman. When the creator chose “Pongpongnam” instead of a more neutral title like “Divorced Man in Another World,” the work had already begun promoting hatred. Therefore, the creator should accept the criticism, not deflect it. The next red line goes to Park Dong-soo’s line about doing “almost all the housework, childcare, and earning money.” The webtoon portrays him as a perfect husband to highlight his wife's wrongdoing. However, the story shows him often away on long-distance business trips, nearly missing holidays with his family, which contradicts his claims of doing most of the childcare.

Similarly, the line about the wife “spending hundreds of dollars a month or overspending while managing finances” also deserves a red line because it conflicts with Park's earlier statement about doing most of the household work. How much of the household chores did this man, who was indifferent to household finances, actually think he was doing? The extent likely matches the narrow range of imagination from a creator who relies on male-dominated online communities and is oblivious to reality.

If this webtoon were a learning material, every line and scene would be marked with red, scoring zero. It mindlessly parrots misogynistic community slang, but in trying to recreate an entire world from such language, contradictions arise at every turn. The one transported to a parallel world isn’t Park Dong-soo but the webtoon’s own logic. Thus, the real target of this critique is not Isekai Pongpongnam itself, but Naver Webtoon for allowing it to pass the first round of screening.

In a Money Today article, a Naver representative said, “There are basic guidelines regarding issues like explicit content or violence. Since no guideline violations were found, it passed the first round.” In other words, despite past controversies over misogyny in webtoons like The Sound of Heart and True Education and the resulting criticisms and revisions, Naver has admitted it lacks guidelines to screen out discriminatory or hateful language targeting specific groups.

The creator of Isekai Pongpongnam argues that the term “dishwashing” is derived from stock trading rather than something as egregious as group rape, trying to suggest that terms like “dishwashing theory” and “Pongpongnam” aren’t expressions of hate. However, the origin of the term is secondary (though not unimportant). When a marriage with a supposedly “promiscuous” woman is likened to dishwashing, the woman is portrayed as something dirty and detestable. Furthermore, the idea that such a marriage is a losing deal disregards women’s contributions to household labor, labeling them as freeloaders. It’s not as though these terms are secretly trending—they were already highly controversial three years ago, with their problematic nature well-documented. How powerless and irresponsible is a guideline that fails to filter out hate speech and discriminatory discourse?

#South korea #Naver #webtoon #pongpongnam isekai #isekai pongpongnam #Misogyny #rape mention #just terminology at the end #Long post #article

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